I don't know what to do! Help!
By INGA832
@INGA832 (1114)
Russian Federation
May 12, 2008 7:29am CST
I work at school and when I came there for the first time I wasn't prepared to such attention from my student in 11 form. He fell in love and not so long ago he said that 8 years is not a big difference for him. Besides, he said that he love me by the radio. I don't know how to explain him that we're different.
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6 responses
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
13 May 08
If I am in your case, I will let the kid understand that teacher should not romantically link to a student. Let him feel that you are a person of authority in the classroom and he is your student. That's the big difference. You can not afford to lose you job because of that situation. It is against the moral law, tell him.
Well, just my idea.
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@ashar123 (2357)
• India
26 Aug 08
Thats one more form of infactulation. He got imoressed by you and started thinking that he likes or loves you. But over time period, one day he will be laughing at himself. I have a friend who started loving our teacher while were in school. His name was Izhar. I talked with him some weeks ago and asked about the teacher. He laughed and said, that was childhood my friend. Now, what do you have to say to that ?
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
12 May 08
Kids that age quickly develop a crush especially if the age difference is not that big. You should not have even been open to discussing this with him. You could get into serious trouble with the authorities. Tell him that you are flattered but already have a boyfriend and the relationship is very serious. Tell him that he is a nice boy but only a child although teenagers love to think otherwise. Tell him you are only interested in being his teacher, end of discussion. Then simply ignore any further advances. If it still doesn't stop, talk with the school counselor and principal, just for your own protection. Because if this continues with such public declarations of love you will eventually find yourself in serious trouble and without a job.
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@besthope44 (12123)
• India
29 Aug 10
Love is a great feeling which has to be expressed. If you find it true, never fail to convey, thats a tribute to the love in real.