break ups...

i think it really depends on the situation. it doesn't matter what your gender is. if you think you want to end the relationship, then go for it

For me, I think it depends. If the relationship is not working at all anymore, someone should ask for a break up. It could be the girl or the boy, but, they should talk about it first. If there's still anything that they can do to fixed it or if they can still work things out. If not, then, I think letting go is the best way! :) And, for me, the one who cheats have no right to start the break up.. Hello! You just hurt someone else heart, and hurting it again is too cruel! :)

there is nothing writtenm in rulebook like that. v=breakup is the sadeest thing in relationship. so whoover thinks its over, can initiate.

I don't think gender has anything to do with it, either. It seems like if someone has a good reason to end a relationship, and they feel like they want to/need to in order to be happy/continue moving on with their life, then the more power to them, I could only hope that things would work out. I don't think it's a man's place to start or end a relationship, and I feel the same way about a woman. Gender doesn't make you want to stop a relationship, the relationship does.