grandparents

@aiyreen (286)
Philippines
May 13, 2008 11:36pm CST
i've been thinking of the senior ladies and gentlemen who are staying in nursing houses. some of them don't get visits from their families. i want to share some of my time and visit them , bring some snacks we can share and just talk to them. anyone who have other ideas or suggestions as to how can we ease these people's burden?
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@chubibo (294)
• Philippines
16 May 08
the best way to ease these people's burden is to show to them that they are well loved..not necessarily by their love ones but by people that surrounds them.i pity for those people who abandoned these elderly people..
@aiyreen (286)
• Philippines
17 May 08
i agree with you... they just missed one of the best things they have in their lives
@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
15 May 08
I believe one never really know the real worth of something unless they lose it or simply never had it.. Good attitudes towards elderly people are good deeds: I would also add, that bringing them materialistic things, in one way do pleases them, but most importantly, just a warm visit, some long hours talks, a small walk, all these are more than enough to keep them happy.. Just try imagine, whats the wound, thats never cease from showing an aura of pain and agony around them? Its the parting from their flesh, ignorance of their kins, right? They just need their close ones, just need some love, some care, and affection..
@aiyreen (286)
• Philippines
16 May 08
yes... i think we should treat them well because we have to admit that they wont last long with us so we better make their remaining years with us something they can treasure till the end...
@Breath (1297)
• United States
14 May 08
I have a big soft spot for elderly people...My grandparents raised me and I took care of them..I go to the nursing home and visit the elderly also..The smile on their face is worth every minuet of my time...It makes me feel better inside as a person....
@aiyreen (286)
• Philippines
14 May 08
i'm just wondering if it's ok to visit them even though you don't have any relation with the people inside? i don't know how i can ask permission or who should i talk to.
• United States
14 May 08
My grandparents were in a nursing home for about 4 years, first my grandfather and then my grandmother, so they were there together for about 3 years. I used to work in that same nursing home and, honestly, the people who had more visitors were always happier. I always appreciated it when someone visited my grandparents because we couldn't always go visit as often as we would have liked. It's really important to the residents that they feel that the rest of the world hasn't forgotten them. I think it's a wonderful thing for you to do, I'm sure it will be appreciated.