what do u say 2 a bestfriend when there mom just died & how to confront her/him?
By chubibo
@chubibo (294)
Philippines
May 14, 2008 1:41am CST
everything that happens in life is a stepping stone to a higher ground.you may not know it now but it may come in handy in the future.
2 responses
@DonnaLawson (4032)
• United States
14 May 08
That is a hard situation to have to go through.. Probably the best thing to say is "I am so sorry and I am here for you".. Everything else is so cliche and doesn't really mean anything.. If you tell them you are sorry and you know how they feel, you can't know how they feel unless you have just lost your mother.. And if you have lost your mother and it has been awhile ago, then you are taking the importance of their fresh grief off of them and making your grief more imoportant.. It is best to let someone talk when they have lost someone and just be there for them to listen and to have a shoulder to cry on..
