To be an optimistic One

i think it's really about being comfortable in your own skin. Theres many ways of veiwing life thats why there are wars. so individuly just be comfortable with what your comfortable with and go with it. Self criticizing is not good. Im a realist/pessimist and i love myself and i am happy with the way i think. I think some people get confused with pessimism and just plain depression. It is different