i am confused in love :'( ??!!
By dexterlab
@dexterlab (458)
May 14, 2008 4:16am CST
well i am 17 year boy live in delhi and i love a girl alot and she is just of my age
and recently we both had completed our 12th class now its our time to chose the career she has interest in animation so she chose it
i had interest in computer engineering so i chose that
but our luck is so bad that his college had said that there college has no placement in delhi if have than not so good so after 3 years she have to go to mumbai means very far away from me she said me that she can stay here with less money with me and can compromise with her career but i dont want that she have to compromise with her career all cause of me.......
but i love her alot i dont wanna lose her at any cost
but cant even stop her from going cause career is career
please help me out
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6 responses
@ameeluv (388)
• Saint Lucia
14 May 08
well how bout she goes to the school cut out for her and you guys see each other on breaks... you may never know it can work out... Im movign away from my boyfriend soon.. sooo but i will always see him on breaks which i love...
i know its really hard to move away form someone you love so much but somethings have to be done in order to have a successful life
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
15 May 08
Sometimes it is the tough situations such as yours that makes love grow stronger. If neither of you can get a school closer to the other, there are always those periods when school is out in which you can go to see her. Another thing to think about is that maybe you can meet somewhere in the middle. She come part the way to you and you go part the way to her. I have always believed that love is pretty much the strongest force there is. I have also lived by the thought that if love is meant to be, love will find a way.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
18 May 08
that is a tough one, I would say, do your schooling and see what happens in three years, you may decide that you do not love her then, or you may want to get married by then, and maybe you will want to move with her to mumbai, right now do your schooling.
@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
17 May 08
A permanent placement or something like an internship.
If its an internship I'd say both of you intern for you chosen careers and maintain a long distance relationship. They do work but you have to communicate, if you dont then someones bound to wonder whats wrong.
I'm not sure if that helps any.
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
15 May 08
This is one of those serious discussion that i have no answer for. Sorry.
