How would you react when you found out that your boyfriend cheated you?

@Bebs08 (10681)
United States
May 14, 2008 9:02am CST
Well, most of those who are in this situation can not hold their temper. Of course they will be upset? Maybe getting wild or they will do something unsual. Only very few people can handle the situation in a civil way. What if it will happen to you? How will you handle it?
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@2babita (1072)
• India
15 May 08
Well i think in our life time we are cheated by boyfriend or husband.Yes it is very hurtful and painful but i think it teach us a lesson not to beleive or trust to much to a person.Well i wont cry or shout but i will call him and ask him "why he cheated me".We are also human we have the right to live not to sit in a coner or cry.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
15 May 08
yeah, but the common reaction when you're hurt is either you cry or be angry. It's just hard to hold our temper when we found out we are cheated..
• India
15 May 08
Well yeah sure, i dont have patience, but i do not give it up if we r in public. I just walk away, but him knowing that i know. And when we r private, i do all sorts talking, bashing and also throwing my heart out. Just crying my heart out alone wont be enough, i really have to show him that he hurt me enough to break my heart....
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
15 May 08
That's right!! He must know it. Well, are you still going to work out things for you and him to be together again?
@subha12 (18441)
• India
15 May 08
it has still not happened to be. but i think it will be worse. i will be very hirt and feel cheted badfly. its the love lost forever.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
15 May 08
well, yes,... in this situation, are you going to work out things to win him back?
• Canada
14 May 08
Well, this exact scenario has happened to me so many times that i'm pretty sure I would handle it better than I used too. The first time I was really young and felt like it had been my fault and believed him when he told me that. It happened several more times with the same guy and I just took it laying down. The next guy to cheat on me got a vase thrown at his head. I know that sounds extreme, but I had my reasons at the time. My Fiance now.. we've been together for five years. I think that if he were to cheat on me I would be so throw.. so surprised.. it would absolutly break my heart. But I really don't think he will.. he's not that type of person. If he did though, i'd dump him quickly to give myself some time to get over it.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
15 May 08
Hi souless, you are very brave huh? Throwing a vase at his head? that's a good thing. when I was cheated, I just cry in the corner and promise to myself to show him that he made a mistake of doing that to me. I made it, because few months later he came back and asked forgiveness, yes I forgave him but never to be with him again even he tried his best to win me back. NEVER!!!
• India
14 May 08
i have undergone ths situation n trust me evn if u want to u cnt hold ur temper back. the only person u thght wud nvr hurt u, hurts u the most its obvious tht u will shout and be angry...
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
14 May 08
Yes, I understand the feeling. Definitely I will feel the same but maybe will not display my emotion in public. I'd rather hide and pour it out myself. Thanks for the reply
• China
14 May 08
In my opinion,it's not a wise way to get wild and qurral with him,as it will hurt yourself,maybe I'll first make out if he really cheat me and what he cheated to me,if it is beyond my ability to forgive him,I will say goodbye to him,but before I leave I will tell him why I am so angry,and tell him that he has lost the most presious thing we owed in our love,that is love,then leave him and give myself a new chance.
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@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
14 May 08
Wow!! I appreciate your patience. Some ladies cannot hold their temper. YOur idea is good.. Thanks for the reply