Ask yourself

Hi dear really short but nice discussion, but u did not reply it ur self first, let us know what rules u??? in my case, i would say its anger, thought i try hard to control it and most of time successful in doing it, but still at the back their is anger, ready to explode

as much possible, i will try to let my patient winning over my anger. cause like or not release our anger to anything doesn't make everything seems better. in fact, it will make everything gonna be worst than before

My patience rules me more than my anger, but every now and then my anger becomes so great that it takes over my patience. This rarelly happens but it used to happen more commonly when I was a kid (when I was around 10 or so). Now that I am older I can control myself more and well, my patience and common sense usually take over my anger. I also tend to stay calm and not become very angry most of the time. I keep on trying to make my patience and common sense rule over me rather than my anger.

It would be patience for me. There are many instances where my anger overwhelms me and I am tempted to flare up and hit back at whoever or whatever is causing me to feel angry but I hold back for awhile and think again to myself if it is worth it or not. Normally the answer would be no and I would thank myself for taking time off to think before I react in those situations.