When a man cheats
By flowerpower5
@flowerpower5 (96)
May 14, 2008 6:20pm CST
Do you tell his fiance? Do you stay out of it so your not caught in the middle? He works long hours and 6 days a week so he doesn't have to be home but yet they are getting married. I think she is making a big mistake and he will not change. He's cheated in the past and is showing signs of it again. She thinks the relationship is stable but it is far from it. The words calling it off and divorce have already been thrown around! Not sure what to do with this issue.
What do you MyLotters think?
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@flowerpower5 (96)
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30 May 08
I am keeping out of it. I have given it a lot of thought and I'm keeping out of the whole situation. It's a disaster waiting to happen. He makes excuses to go out even lying about it. She really wants to get married and in my opinion knows but is turning a blind eye to his behaviors. When the marriage fails I won't be to blame because of it. They both know it's a mistake but are going through with it anyway. There are many issues that they are both avoiding and getting married will not make it better. All I can do is wish them luck and be there for them when it does fail. It's to far gone to have a positive attitude about it. Which I think is really sad for all involved. Thank you for your thoughts.
@NuclearRabbit (650)
• United States
15 May 08
Stay out of it! If you don't, you will be caught in the middle and if they don't break up, they will blame you for your 'interferance'. If you really must interfer do it anonomously and have solid proof.
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@flowerpower5 (96)
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15 May 08
You're right!!! It's hard to sit back and watch this happen but I don't want to be the one to break it apart. That will happen in due time on it's own.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
29 May 08
I think that you need to discretely tell his fiance
as I would have wanted to be told had I ever been
in the same way. He has done so before and is not
changgin and if you care for her as a friend help
her by telling her quietly and calmly the truth.
@flowerpower5 (96)
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30 May 08
I would if I knew a world war wouldn't break out. It would be like stepping on a stick of dynomite. I'm not saying anything.
