how to feel secured in your relationship?

me & my boyfriend - taken in singapore.,Ü
Philippines
May 15, 2008 12:37am CST
what do you do in order to stay secure in your relationship with your boyfriend or girlfriend?
7 responses
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
15 May 08
I believe in the policy of caring and sharing. I believe that if I share everything with my partner and vice versa, we will have a bond between us and we would feel more secured. Caring is another important aspect, which I duly take into account and I do care a lot about my partner and vice versa. Caring also makes us feel secure.
• Philippines
15 May 08
yeah i guess so.,but one important thing in order to work everything is acceptance? if you really love someone then i guess you have to accept everything to make her feel more secured.,nice words! thanks for responding.,Ü
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@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
15 May 08
Yes, I completely agree with you, 'acceptance' in a relationship is extremely important. If we 'accept' a person, as he/she actually is, we can strengthen our relationship. Thanks for your comments!
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@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
15 May 08
Foster your loved one with security and adequate care, obviously if your love is genuine and mutual, you will be blessed with similar care and affection which builds up a strong sense of security. Also, in case, there's a sense of insecurity prevailing, i deem it important that it is discussed between the partners, as he/she is the one who knows and understands you best!
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
thanks for the wonderful answer! i agree! thanks!
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
15 May 08
I would have to say that you just have to trust one another or you will never feel secure in it. If either of you have any doubts about the other, then you will never have security between you both. I have tried many times to feel secure though and the relationship didn't go anywhere, You have to just take it one step at a time.
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• Philippines
15 Jul 08
yup i agree with you., thanks a lot!
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
15 May 08
Always learn and to be learned.
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• Philippines
15 May 08
yeah i think so! thanks!
@shaneika (31)
• Philippines
15 May 08
hi! ms. myliezl, im not pro in comes of love but in my opinion there is trust in a relationship. You should trust the person you love, and whatever happens be true to yourself and be honest to your partner. Even if your partner hurts you in some other way. You can still say that ät least i was loyal and honest to you" there is no perfect relationship. If you want someone to love you be prepared to be hurt.. love is sacrifice.. hope i was able to give you answer you were looking forward too.
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• Philippines
15 Jul 08
ahuh i am very much satisfied with your explanation with regards of security and i agree with what you have said here., thanks for the good answer!
• United States
15 May 08
Trust is the foundation, acceptance is the framework and understanding forms the bulk. If u can trust the other person, understand what he/she needs from u and give that, accept and forgive the other's drawbacks, weaknesses, and mistakes, then, U can certainly be secure and love the other truly.
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• Philippines
15 Jul 08
wonderful answer! you deserve to have a best response! thanks a lot!
@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
15 May 08
Hi there! actually for me there was no assurance that every relationship is secured because everything changes and we can't do something about if changes strike even the most sensitive feeling we have that is love. During a relationship, I just enjoy that feeling that we have right there on, if its mean to last then Im happy and proud if its going to end because of certain circumtances that we cannot refrain then even if its hard i'l let go. I have learned to enjoy and feel love when its fresh and alive. Changes does not choose who and what to strike. So enjoy love while you have it. Cheers!!
• Philippines
15 May 08
in a way your right.,but i guess it would be better if you do both have faith that God is there for both of you then i guess you will feel more secured.,thanks for responding! see you around!