I am SO upset right now! Why can't people LEAVE ME ALONE!

@kaysue4 (951)
United States
May 15, 2008 2:56am CST
Why can't people just grow up! I just had rocks thrown at my house at 3 AM. Almost two weeks ago these same set of "children," some are 22 years old now, surround my house with two car loads of people and harrass my house all weekend and even threatened to make my house a "bloodbath."I have the police involved, but they got to be able to catch these yohons. I see the spots where these BIGrocks hit the side of the house and they almost hit my youngest, who is 12 years old, window and his bed is not far from that window. I first got up because my dog started barking and I got up and used the restroom and then woke up hubby to take out the dogs. Well I was in bed and I heard this big BANG and then I went outside and started looking around because of the trouble that we have been having. I asked him if he heard that and he told me that it was like a car door closing and it was a black car. They pulled up the street and then turned around and went back down the street. Well, then hubby was still at the door and I heard a loud car again and heard a loud BANG again. It was the same black car and I thought that they had shot at the house and called 911 and told the cops that I thought someone was shooting at my house. Hubby got his shoes on and got his flashlight and I told him that I didn't check the mailbox, maybe they blew it up. We headed out and checked the side of the house and didn't see any gun shots, but then I almost fall over a big rock! The cops came and then he shined a flashlight up higher and that is when I see that the first time it had hit my house between the top two windows, not far from my son's room. I tell my other two boys to get my youngest and put him in one of the other bedrooms with them. Now, the reason I think this has started happening is because I was summoned to appear in court and testify against the one guys girlfriend's sister for something that had happened in last October. I was thinking, nice weather and these guys have always had a fued going with my boys since a few years back. Nothing happened all winter and not much last year either. But my oldest son was not even home. I had been telling my 15 year old to not pay attention to these guys even when they are yelling at him and such when he is at his girlfriend's house. I have always also told him to call 911 if he feels that they are going to hurt him. I didn't even know until today that they tried to run my youngest off of the road when he was riding his bike. I am not going to let them run me off, but I don't want my kids loosing a grip and going aftr these guys either. I have two that are bipolar. My one that is bipoar also has like an explosive and rage disorder the point that he will get SO mad that he will pass out and not even know what he is doing before he passed out. So, what would you do if this was happening to you? Be truthful with your answer please.
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@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
16 May 08
I really don't know what I would do in such a situation, but you were right involving the police. According to the lighting conditions around your house, maybe you could set up a video camera and perhaps the police could use that as proof.
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@kaysue4 (951)
• United States
16 May 08
I am trying to work on finding my video camera. I have not used it in OVER a year, now were can it be?
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@jczvrse (169)
• United States
23 May 08
I totally understand where you are coming from. My daughter was kidnapped and raped when she was 13 and is now 16, it took the police 3 months to catch him then he was in jail for a year before the trial the sentenced to 3 life sentences. Anyway he belongs to a gang known as juggalos and since his arrest we have been harassed by his gang the windows in my house have been broken, my fences continued to be tagged, my car was crashed into so my daughters have both been jumped just so much bull when she did nothing wrong. Well what I did was talk with the detective involved in the case and he advised me to get as many names as possible of who was doing the harassing and assults which we did and yes they were arrested but still after getting out they came back with even more of a vengence, the police are doing what they can but they cant stop them. There are too many. My daughter has been locked in this house for 3 years now, not able to attend public school because of this what I recommend is keep calling the police give them all the info you can to catch them but i dont like saying this but this is what i had to do to make it stop i dont recommed it but its up to you, I have older kids in their late 20's who im sorry to say are x gang bangers not sorry about the x just sorry about the gang but they took matters in their own hands and when the juggalos were caught anywhere near my daughters they were taught a lesson by my boys and their friends, just beat up a bit not killed or mamed or anything but after a few they stopped we have been free from harassment for almost a year now.
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@kaysue4 (951)
• United States
24 May 08
Oh, I am so sorry that your family has been through all of that and now my problem seems so small compared to what you guys have been through. My boys are ready to take it into thier own hands, but I told them the other guys have to hit our property before they can do anything, legally. They told me they will get ahold of one of them and pull them into the house if they have to to get the cops to arrest someone in all of this crap. I started the protection order and I have also talked with the prosecutor and will hear back from him next week because the one girl I have to go for trial against her. I have had the police out here many times, I have three police reports and pages that were added to it because of things happening within hours of the first report on the same day. These guys are in thier 20s and they tried to run my youngest off of the road with thier truck! I think if I can I might ask to see if I can get the 5 year order, by then we will be moving when my 15 year old turns 18, I am moving to a two bedroom apartment. I am glad that your boys got out of the gangs and I bet that was not easy at all for your whole family. My older boys did grow up for a few years in "the hood," but we moved almost 10 years ago and they tell me you can take the boy out of the hood, but you can't take the hood out of the boy. I will say a little prayer for your daughter and to give you strength to get through all of these hard times.
@jczvrse (169)
• United States
24 May 08
Thank you for your prayers and I hope things work out for you. You know if whatever you are testifying against this girl for had happened the opposite and she and her family were in your families shoes they would realize but unfortunantly they dont see that they just see her in trouble and think this is they way to get her out of trouble, you know the DA can add charges to her because of what her friends and family are doing to you they can add for each incident a charge of intimidating a witness that may stop them as well. Good luck and I also pray things get better for your family.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 May 08
Iwould surely report these guys to the police and if necessary youo could get a restraining order against these holigans 'as they have no right doing these things. I think the police would be even more interested to know that you have two bipolar sons and one has a problem with rage as they would really give you a restraining order in that case.they cannot go around breaking the law like that.
@kaysue4 (951)
• United States
23 May 08
I am filing for 3 restraining orders today. I had to get the papers noterized first and then I had several appointments yesterday, so today I am going to ask for the No Stalking Order and also victim witness intimidation for the one order I am filing.
• Bahamas
23 May 08
While i've never had to deal with this, i can understand how you feel.I think by appling for the no stalking order you are on the right track. I also think you and your family have a right to protect yourself and your property. I'm one that dont stand for bullying and intimidation, and will protect myself and my family by whatever means necessary and i'm not above hurting anyone that threatens our safty.Your family is your first priority. I think bullies are cowards, and you need to stand up to them.To be truthful, they would start it with me and i'd finish it with them. I'm the nicest person you could know. But get on my bad side and i'll make you sorry.