I am SO upset right now! Why can't people LEAVE ME ALONE!
By kaysue4
@kaysue4 (951)
United States
May 15, 2008 2:56am CST
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@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
16 May 08
I really don't know what I would do in such a situation, but you were right involving the police. According to the lighting conditions around your house, maybe you could set up a video camera and perhaps the police could use that as proof.
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@jczvrse (169)
• United States
23 May 08
I totally understand where you are coming from. My daughter was kidnapped and raped when she was 13 and is now 16, it took the police 3 months to catch him then he was in jail for a year before the trial the sentenced to 3 life sentences. Anyway he belongs to a gang known as juggalos and since his arrest we have been harassed by his gang the windows in my house have been broken, my fences continued to be tagged, my car was crashed into so my daughters have both been jumped just so much bull when she did nothing wrong. Well what I did was talk with the detective involved in the case and he advised me to get as many names as possible of who was doing the harassing and assults which we did and yes they were arrested but still after getting out they came back with even more of a vengence, the police are doing what they can but they cant stop them. There are too many. My daughter has been locked in this house for 3 years now, not able to attend public school because of this what I recommend is keep calling the police give them all the info you can to catch them but i dont like saying this but this is what i had to do to make it stop i dont recommed it but its up to you, I have older kids in their late 20's who im sorry to say are x gang bangers not sorry about the x just sorry about the gang but they took matters in their own hands and when the juggalos were caught anywhere near my daughters they were taught a lesson by my boys and their friends, just beat up a bit not killed or mamed or anything but after a few they stopped we have been free from harassment for almost a year now.
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@kaysue4 (951)
• United States
24 May 08
Oh, I am so sorry that your family has been through all of that and now my problem seems so small compared to what you guys have been through.
My boys are ready to take it into thier own hands, but I told them the other guys have to hit our property before they can do anything, legally. They told me they will get ahold of one of them and pull them into the house if they have to to get the cops to arrest someone in all of this crap.
I started the protection order and I have also talked with the prosecutor and will hear back from him next week because the one girl I have to go for trial against her. I have had the police out here many times, I have three police reports and pages that were added to it because of things happening within hours of the first report on the same day.
These guys are in thier 20s and they tried to run my youngest off of the road with thier truck! I think if I can I might ask to see if I can get the 5 year order, by then we will be moving when my 15 year old turns 18, I am moving to a two bedroom apartment.
I am glad that your boys got out of the gangs and I bet that was not easy at all for your whole family. My older boys did grow up for a few years in "the hood," but we moved almost 10 years ago and they tell me you can take the boy out of the hood, but you can't take the hood out of the boy.
I will say a little prayer for your daughter and to give you strength to get through all of these hard times.
@jczvrse (169)
• United States
24 May 08
Thank you for your prayers and I hope things work out for you. You know if whatever you are testifying against this girl for had happened the opposite and she and her family were in your families shoes they would realize but unfortunantly they dont see that they just see her in trouble and think this is they way to get her out of trouble, you know the DA can add charges to her because of what her friends and family are doing to you they can add for each incident a charge of intimidating a witness that may stop them as well. Good luck and I also pray things get better for your family.
@Hatley (163773)
• Garden Grove, California
23 May 08
Iwould surely report these guys to the police and if necessary
youo could get a restraining order against these holigans
'as they have no right doing these things. I think the
police would be even more interested to know that you
have two bipolar sons and one has a problem with rage as
they would really give you a restraining order in that
case.they cannot go around breaking the law like that.
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@kaysue4 (951)
• United States
23 May 08
I am filing for 3 restraining orders today. I had to get the papers noterized first and then I had several appointments yesterday, so today I am going to ask for the No Stalking Order and also victim witness intimidation for the one order I am filing.
@dragonfly242 (1060)
• Bahamas
23 May 08
While i've never had to deal with this, i can understand how you feel.I think by appling for the no stalking order you are on the right track. I also think you and your family have a right to protect yourself and your property. I'm one that dont stand for bullying and intimidation, and will protect myself and my family by whatever means necessary and i'm not above hurting anyone that threatens our safty.Your family is your first priority.
I think bullies are cowards, and you need to stand up to them.To be truthful, they would start it with me and i'd finish it with them. I'm the nicest person you could know. But get on my bad side and i'll make you sorry.
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