what will you do if your not happy on your marriage life?

I will try to trace what made us experience that, evaluate what's the cause of the sudden change and if it's with time, then we have to sit down and talk about it, resolve it as soon as possible since we all know that if we don't have much time to each other, surely, the closeness is affected, if it is about honesty and trust, another significant factors to be considered to have a successful marriage life, then same thing, sit down and talk about the issue, how each one of us can contribute to the problems! Adjustment as other said, will be about lifetime, so, as much as I can, I want to save my marriage and whatever things that tried to shaken or disturb it, I will ask my partner to be with me in solving any of it!

I've been there..For many years i tried to fix things up even if my other ex half wasn't that interested..Because I still love him.. But then through the years, when your effort isn't good enough and the marriage is still falling..what else is there to do but get out.. In my country, divorce isn't accepted. But there is legal separation and annullment..I chose the later because I still want to achieve my dream of having a family of my own that I hope will last a lifetime.. I wanna get married again and try it once more.. I got married again and I pray that he's the real one for me..

The first thing I would do would be to communicate these feelings to my partner, they may be feeling the same too. It may just be that you have started taking each other for granted. Every relationship needs working on otherwise it will become mundane but no I wouldn't contemplate divorce just because I was beginning to feel this way, I would try to refresh the relationship first and then if I still had the same feelings I might consider then. Ellie :D

Differences is a way of life and we need to work it out.No two people can be same in all ways so we need to accept changes that our spouse make and accept the fact that as humans..change is inevitable.I wil try to work out my realtionship rather than a divorce..

I don't think divorce is a good way to save people from his/her unhappy marriage. Frist, the couple married must love each other once, if the love existed, the marriage can be continued. There is a saying, marriage is the tomb of the love, but I don't think so, I believe to have a happy marriage takes great effort, people need to spend a lot of time and energy. One famous Chinese moive star once said her secret for the happy marriage is to treat her husband as boyfriend. Frankly speaking, I am afraid of marrage now as the divorce rate is too high these days, but I will try all my best to have a happy marriage.

i think if your not really ready to a commitment just stop...now a days i don't think a marriage will last long...on my own i rather have a child and not marry a person if your just going to separate...divorce is not an answer to everything just beracuse you have a lots of differences...in the first place why did you marry...sorry but divorce you waste a lot of money,and time...