how would you act if someone was staring at you ?
By unuzzz
@unuzzz (1273)
Indonesia
May 15, 2008 4:19am CST
i was walking down an alley in mu university with a female friend yesterday
no idea before until then i realized some people was looking at my friend,
some people even slowthen their steps and turn their eyes on her
hmm, i didn't know if my friend realized those people attention or not
some friends said that my friend, this girl, is very beautiful and attractive unless me.. hahaa
i knew her for quite a long time, and maybe i forgot whether she is pretty or not.. LoL
when i told her that people were looking at her just before,
she just laughed and said that she didn't care
if i were her, i can't stay calm against such acts
i would have felt insulted for someone staring at me
hahaa, i guess it might be because of my bad childhood memories
i was weak in the junior high, and people often make fun of me
so i guess by staring at me, it's a kind like an offensive act ? LoL
how would you act if someone was staring at you ?
5 responses
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
1 Aug 08
Hello unuzzz,
I won't get mad if people stare at me but will be proud of it *smiles* Unfortunately, I can get panic easily and will feel uneasy whenever others give their full attention to me! My husband always get the attention and head turnings whenever he goes out. He too, doesn't care with the attention but sometimes he feels uncomfortable with all the stares. Whenever he is not in a good mood, he will tell me this, "Should I approach them and ask why they stare at me? They never seen someone like me or what?" I always stop him from getting mad at the people by saying that he should be glad that they think he is really worth looking at!
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@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
1 Aug 08
hi gr8life
i like your last words ^^ !!!!
" .. should be glad that they think he is really worth looking at""
it means a lot !!
it's not easy to have those words in mind at that time,
but this point of view will surely help everyone.. ehehee
thanks for responding gr8life ^^ !!
cheers ..
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@katkat (2378)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
I don’t like people staring especially in a restaurant. I feel uncomfortable and find it hard to concentrate in eating my favorite dish. Most of the time I find people staring at me while walking in streets and in malls, it’s annoys me and I would ask to myself do I have dirt in my face,. But as time passed I got to learn to keep my head up and just ignore there stares and keep walking. There’s one incident that I didn’t ignore and have to take action. I’m in a public transportation going to my work, I’m in my casual clothes and this woman stares me straight from the face. At first I don’t mind it, though she’s getting in my nerves. Then a minute later she stares at me again from the head to my shoes then to my face again. That’s the time I stare at her, eye to eye with one of my eyebrow raise up. I wait for her next reaction but she just looks away and never looks at me again. I don’t get it why people have to stare to someone like that? If she stares at me again, I will surely confront her.
@unuzzz (1273)
• Indonesia
10 Oct 08
hi katkat
haha, ya sometimes being indifferent is good
wow, you're braver than me.. hahaa
even if someone do that to me,
i might just stay still.. i don't have the courage to confront him/her
although i'd be so pissed off.. hehee
anyway, thanks for responding katkat
who knows i might be inspired with what you did the next time someone staring at me
hehee, cheers.. ^ ^
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
15 May 08
I hate when people stare at me! I get complete strangers staring at me a lot! When they do it in restraunts it's the worst! I hate eating in front of people as it is, and when I know someone is staring I just can't eat! Sometimes I even get girls I don't even know staring/glaring at me! I'm like O.o what the heck!? lol. It's rude, annoying--and you're right, offensive!