when your s/o and friends don't get a long

Canada
May 15, 2008 5:38am CST
i been with my girlfriend for 2 and a half months now things have been going great at first well i have a friend that met her once for some reason i don't understand why he don't like her while back he was saying things like she was cheating on me. well im easly miss lead so i talked to my woman about it make a long story short we got into a agument about it and we were apart for 3 weeks up till the monday that just past. i think that if he was any of a true friend you would acppect the fact im with her cause i want to be with her truth is i don't think he wants me to be happy at all and as far as my woman she don't like him cause he cause probmles between us and i understand that feels like im stuck int he middle im not going to give up my relationship with my woman to make my friend happy.i don't wanna lose him as a friend but i know that if he can't accpect her that i will have no choice but to just stop being his friend we all know that friends should be there for another no matter what there used to be a time that i could talk to him about her now when i bring her name up he flips out and says he don't want to hear anything about her
1 response
@teka44 (3420)
• Brazil
15 May 08
Hi jaybird welcome to mylot I wish you the best luck here. Well it is a very strange thing that he don't want nor hear her name if nothing happen between they. If you love your girlfriend stay with her. The fact to he is a friend don't give the right to drive your life and many times a friend can be an envier person and try to put you down. Try to talk with him and put the things clearly: if he don't accept and respect your girlfriend you terminate the friendship. Maybe he get some sense. good luch