Happy New Year

Grow your collection of women's undergarments?? How about...staying positive and as wonderful as you are. That and don't ever scare me with leaving again- EVER!!!!

My darling p1ke, you know how much I love you and how much happiness I wish for you. Depression is a horrible thing - I've been there too, and am prone to it, but I fight against it. It's when you feel that you can't walk out that door that you HAVE to walk out that door, but you know all that, I won't go on about it. What I will go on about though, is being good to yourself. That's what you need to do, and continue doing. You've found so many new friends here on the Lot and you're so very loved by them all. Keep typing here, keep up with your blog, keep writing stories (yes, the ones I like too!), and keep on the lookout for the perfect job. I know you'll find it. You're in a new and wonderful part of your life now - it only gets better from here! And no one that I know is more deserving of it than you, p1ke. You've got a huge heart and you extend yourself to help anyone that asks. You're kind and loving and generous and one more thing too - terribly sexy, oh my, you do make my little heart beat faster. Just keep going forward. Never straight, but always forward. An old saying from my hippie days. Ok, from my earlier hippie days. We all know I'm still an old hippie. Happy New Year, darlin. I love you to pieces. XXXXXXX

Well congrats to you my wonderful friend congrats!!!! Welcome back. Depression is a crazy place to hang out, and being that you choice to change your hang out spot, I am toasting to ya!! I would suggest you get you and the misses all dolled up and go out to a nice dinner, and then make love in the back of the car like teenagers!!!!! New Year calls for new things, a few fun risks!!

P1ke my darling I love you cos you are potty and kind, and caring and so considerate and I could go on but what i really want to say is I know how this feels as I have thought against the dreaded depressions since I was 23 (probably a lot younger but we didn't have a name for it til then) I have lost a few battles but am winning the war! I know that you my lovely p1ke will be victorious too! As for the next 12 months I can see you visiting Scotland and kidnapping me as we take a mylot tour of the world , dropping in on every one of our beloved friends as we go til we need a double decker bus to go to our next stop! PS I only say kidnap as I don't think the other half and kids would be happy if I went willingly! lol xxx

P1ke, dear P1ke. I have also had my bouts with depression so I know where you are coming from. I had to move my house with little children and change my entire lifestyle to resolve it. I did this with the help of a counsellor and my doctor. His perscription was to move to where I wanted to be and live the lifestyle I had always wanted to do. It has helped me tremendously in my personal growth. I don't know what to suggest to you. But how about a trip to Canada and the U.S.? Just a couple of weeks and you can visit all of us and WE WILL PARTY TILL YU DROP. And maybe more. HA ha. We would love to see you, all of us, I'm very sure. You are a wonderful human being, very sensitive, kind and caring. Very rare sometimes.

Congrats to you P1ke my Dear! now i suggest you get yourself all dolled up again and come to America and visit..bring as many family members you want and we will introduce everyone to you so they can see Our wonderful fishy that walks!..now if you want to come alone you can do that too..LOL I'm trying to be polite and not frisky but if you do come make sure you wear your best cone bra so i can say you are Madonna's protege! A new wardrobe is a must! Us Texans wear our spurs to bed so I hope you are frisky enough for that..LOL

Congratulations hun, you deserve to celebrate. So, what to do in the coming 12 months? Learn to sky dive perhaps? Become an artist's model? or even something as simple as looking in the mirror every morning and smiling. I am so pleased for you hun, keep up the good work.

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I'm so happy that you have come such a long way! Jolly good! (got to keep practicing you know) Hmm to celebrate....Since your daughter is coming home on holiday you should plan one of your pancake days then go out and stroll through the garden, careful not to get covered in poo from the orangutan or get your ankles nipped from the crocodile. Sit for a spot and reflect on just how far you have come and how much better you feel after putting all that nastiness and negativity behind you. Then that evening take your lovely wife to bed, light some candles, toss rose petals across the bed, massage her feet then make sweet love to her like you did on your wedding night. Then afterwards wash her linens. Don't worry they make special bleach now that will get the grey out without ruining the material. After all of this wake up every day for the next 12 months with a smile on your face and take a deep breath and know that you are a wonderful man and are loved by many. Even if half of those many reside across an ocean.

Since you have that lovely new bra, you could join a local strippers' club! I hear they make tons of money with people paying them to take their clothes off, and it could also be an ego boost! I would consider it a HUGE ego boost if someone paid me to take mine off! Alas, they only ask me to put them back on, lol! I know how you feel emotionally, P1ke. I have Bipolar Disorder, so I get the highest of highs, and the lowest of lows. I love the idea of a "New Year" for this type of thing. If it's okay with you, I'd like to celebrate my own New Year next year. It sounds like it's therapeutic in it's own right, and I do hope that it works well for you. My sister and I are both members on here, and we often talk about discussions or comments from our "favorites". You are among them, along with a few others. We think you are a very cool person, with a great sense of humor. I hope you have a wonderful day, P1ke! I hope that you continue to do well, my friend, in all of your endeavors. Whether you join that strippers club, travel to Tibet and become a monk, or become a Sherpa for the climbers of Mt. Everest, I wish you well! Congratulations, and Happy New Year.

HAPPY NEW YEARCongratulations on achieving so much in the past year. All I can suggest for the year ahead is to keep doing what your doing. You make a lot of people here very happy and like you say sometimes it is a front as you yourself might be feeling a bit low but you still manage to help others. I hope that this is a two way thing. You are surrounded by people that love and care for you in life and in myLot life. Onwards and upwards eh! You also have a lovely trip to Singapore later in the year which I am very envious of, lucky you. Big hugs Ellie :D

my suggestion for your new year just be your loveable, humorous, good natured fishy self and mylot like crazy like the rest of us. swim around in your fishy pool and make us laugh every once in awhile so we do not get all bored and wake up the pesky trolls.Mylot has been a godsend to me also as I was falling into depression after having been forcibly retired now I look forward each day to mylotting and all my wonderful friends. happy new year pikefish.

Happy New Year to you. About 8 years ago I was depressed too. It took a while for me to overcome it as well, so I understand the joy you are feeling now. I suggest you surround yourself with positive influences. There is a great book out there called "You Can Heal Your Life" by Louise Hay. She talks about the power of positive thinking. See, the Universe reacts to the way you think, act, and the things you say, so if it's all negative, that's what you get in return. Positive thing is much more rewarding. Not only does it help you, but it rubs off on the others around you. Try taking up meditating. THAT helps immensely. I am so happy that you are on the road to recovery, I hope it continues. BTW I was just reading an article that said people that form on-line friendships ARE a lot happier. Because of the anonymity of the internet, it makes it easier for people to open up and reveal things they can't or won't to their loved ones I am thrilled we have all found each other, I hope all of our friendships will continue to flourish.

Since its P1key's new year, I think you deserve a treat to reward yourself for battling the hard times and coming through!! If you could treat yourself (and not with a whole day on mylot) what would it be?? We all love you and your 'quirky' potty responses x

Congrats! Sorry that I am just now getting to this discussion but my inbox just kept piling up, so today I thought I would start at the buttom and go up. Depression can be hard on a person I know I have and still do suffer from it. Mylot members have helped me through some pretty rough moments with which I totally appreciate.Well it is almost summer and nothing like taking a long refreshing let it all hang out skinny dip in a pond, buy a new HOG preferrably a Harley Motorcycle, Or buy a new pool and poker game table and start inviting the boys over for a night out. They provide the munchies and drinks you provide the tables and music.

Dearest P1key.....I will always respond to any of your requests ( LOL ) Congrats. on your 1 yr. Anniversary! I'll keep this post potty-free since it is an Important Post. You are very much Loved , and I'm positive it's not on just Mylot either!!!!!!!!!!!! Have a Beautiful Day.....my Beautiful Friend!!!!!!

Happy New Year to you!! If I were you I would spend this year pampering yourself for all you have succeeded in. Make this the best year of your life! I wish you the best in the year to come and wish you all the happiness in the world!!

I recommend meds, they helped me until I managed to retire, that helped me a lot with my depression.

Suggestions of how to keep P1ke Happy Potty instead of Sad Potty: 1. Never make him clean the 'potty' in the loo! 2. Learn to square dance. 3. Enter kite flying competitions. 4. Learn to carve wooden conical bras to wile away the winter months by a cosy fire. 5. Keep writing on his blog. 6. Get a Clown outfit and crash children's birthday parties. I could give you dozens more, but I'm saving some for me! LOL Congrats on your milestone P1ke - stick with us and you will never go sad potty into that good night.....

Well you may be a bit potty but I am really pleased to know that myLot has made such a difference to you. I wish you a much brighter future. As for the next twelve months. Enjoy the good things in life, go on appreciating your family and value yourself a little more. This is the start of your new year so make it a good myLotting one.