Babies Moma Drama
By Remmie7
@Remmie7 (167)
United States
May 15, 2008 3:00pm CST
I have this very good friend of mine who's life is turned upside down because one: he was stupid in doing what he did. and he will have to live with this for the rest of his life. He has made a very big mistake. Its going to take a paid-lawyer to help him with this. The woman claims he got her pregnant, and that he was the only man she was having relations with. Fast forward: the baby is here and my friend wants a paturnity done. Well this woman is dealing with the State and the woman not only gave my friends name but another mans name as well. The other man never shows up for the test and my friend has mixed feelings on this situation. The baby and my friend and the mama was tested. The baby is proven to be my friends. But he is not satisfied because of the other man being named in this paternity suit. I have no idea in what to do to help him. The only thing I can think of is him paying a good lawyer to try and help in whatever way he or she could. The baby is now 3-yrs. old and every year the woman puts in a re-evaluation to get more money fro my friend. Ever since the baby has been born the woman the babies mama calls his wife's job playing on the phone, cursing. Asking for the supervisor to tell a bunch of lies on his wife, tring to get her fired. When his wife sees this woman, the woman she yells from wherever shes at trying to intimidate the wife. This is an on going thing. So to all you men that are married beware of what you get yourself into. Everything you see that look good to you is Not Good For You. I forgot to mention this woman knew that my friend was married. I'm not letting him off the hook. His mother passed away last year. His mothers car was left to my friends family. This car is now being scratched up every time you look around. They can't prove it but they think it's the women. How would you deal with this? I think that from now on as long as the baby is here(not that i wish anything on the baby, the baby is innnocent) the mother of the baby is going to be doing something to get to my friend. D She has 5 children now not one of them babies have the same father. and she's pregnant again as i write. This is just to say to you men out there be careful you don't always know what you're getting. You can be fooled by women. and some do a very good job in doing just that.
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4 responses
@setroc (853)
• Philippines
24 May 08
i dont know what to say, i wish we can post htmls here also for a comment, like in my space you know, i found that realy funy comment, a picture of a rabbit with pancakes on its head with the captions "i dont know what to say, so im just gonna send you this rabbit with pancakes on his head", yesterday, i can put that here, but seriously, your frend is in a very costly and annoying situation, tsk tsk
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@clrumfelt (5490)
• United States
24 May 08
I think your friend should go before a judge and get a protection order on the woman so that she cannot come near him or interfere with his life or property. He is protected by law from the vandalism and harrassment she has been doing. If he wants to claim the child as his based on the paternity test, he could probably find grounds for declaring the woman an unfit mother and get the baby out of that environment. Whatever he decides to do he should definitely get a lawyer to find out what his rights are and get legal counseling about what to do.
@clrumfelt (5490)
• United States
25 May 08
They should call the police. If they catch the girl in the act scratching their car they can take her to court and sue her for the damages.
@Remmie7 (167)
• United States
24 May 08
I told her the same thing, before it gets out of hand. Somebody needs to do something. To me this is a dangerous situation. You think like I do where this is concern. I just hope nothing happens. I do worry about my girlfriend, she doesn't deserve none of this. She's a good person and don't mess with nobody.
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@Remmie7 (167)
• United States
15 May 08
Hello naty1941, I love my friend and his family and he put himself in that situation not one can help him out of this one but God. He has to pay for his wrong doing. and you know what naty he has a wonderful and beautiful wife a set of twins and a little boy (girl twins). His family is wonderful, respectful the kids are that's how their mother raised them up to be. My friend has or had no reason to go out on his wife. My heart goes out to his wife. I don't think he will be going out there again he has his hands full with this one 3'xs over.
@Gesusdid (1676)
• United States
15 May 08
wowow what a class act of stupidity this guy umm i really think and wouldnt be surprised if he did it again he'll be very annyoed by his wife or ex wife it should be and his babies mom , and he'll find yet another women to "express his feelings" to, thats freaking crazy and a very dumb friend the mother of the baby with 5 different babies fathers ...like really close your legs and think !! and she 's pregnat again ..like c'mon WTF was she thinking ..and its sad to say like cases like this are normal ..he'd better get in some over time at the Job asap good luck to em all
@Remmie7 (167)
• United States
16 May 08
Gesusdid, My friend is really going through the ringer ever since this drama happened. I feel for his children and his wife and the outside baby. Life is something to battleling the everyday situations, health care, housing, food, money, gas prices and everything going up, everything let alone an baby mama drama life which is going nowhere, but trouble you will find. So you reap what you sow. True, True and True. Thanks for your response Gesusdid
