why do people change

New Zealand
May 15, 2008 8:18pm CST
have you ever wonder why do we change sometimes we want to or some times we change beoz of situations we are in just for some one. just recently i met a friend well actually my best friend she got married about 6 months ago. i went to her house and she just welcome me at a arm length. she directly ask me y i was here i was so suprised. i never thought she could change so much and told me not to come over with out a reason i kept calling her to find out whats wrong but i guess she doesnt want to talk. have you people ever experience some thing like this after all she was my best friend and actually only one friend whome i use to share a lot.
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• Saint Lucia
16 May 08
Well first of all are you a male? Usually if she changes it maybe because of that. She may feel her husband is over protective and may feel she is some how seeing someone else. But anyways this is life we all grow into and out of friendships. So there are many friends out there and stuff i hope you arent taking this too hard on yourself.
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• New Zealand
16 May 08
hi there actually iam a female. may be i am taking it bit hard on me but its okey she doesnt want to have any thing to do with me but i just want to know why.
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• Saint Lucia
16 May 08
oh right.. thats pretty strange i guess people just change for silly reasons.. just remember she will need you one of these days. by the way is she a little edgey when her husband is around along with u being around? also it seems like shes always needed someone close to her i dont wana sound harsh but she may of replaced u with her husband but as i said at the top she will need you one of these days trust me!
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• Canada
17 May 08
It's a hard thing when people we one knew change, and not always for the beter. Some reasons for this might be because they are influenced by others, and choose to follow along, others because they just change with age and experience. Lie changes some people.