Is this possible.......

Yes it is possible, maybe we all have different reasons for feeling like this towards a hubby or partner. My reasons for my love/hate certainly are different, I love my hubby very much, but when I remember what he did to me 2 years ago, and what he put me and my children through, then there are times when I hate him. But mostly I love him, we have no problems in any other part of our relationship and we are good friends but it is just the one big blot on the landscape that occasionally comes back to haunt me. I am not surprised that you felt hurt over being accused of stealing money from your hubby, I would have been too if my hubby did that, especially as I consider what we have between us to be both ours and not just one of us.

I believe that you can definatly feel both and thats love in its highest form. People that don't fight dont care enough to work issues out. Fighting and hating each other shows theres still passion. It's devistating to be accused of doing something you didn't do by the person that you love the most.

Hate is, for me, a VERY strong emotion so FOR ME personally I could never love AND hate someone...I could love and have distaste for a person..my kids father would be the perfect example actually...Loved him very much but damn did he know how to push my buttons and seriously anger me...I could NEVER hate and love someone though simply because like I said, Hate for me is the strongest, deepest negative emotion that has to stand alone ya know..

No I don't think I could love someone and hate them too. Hate is a very very strong emotion and doesnt tend to ebb and flow. Don't get me wrong I find my husband incredibly annoying and irritating at tomes but nowhere near hate. You need to have an open discussion on why he immediately thought the "missing" money was courtesy of you and why he accused you of "stealing" it. I think he owes you one big apology. Maybe he has financial worries you aren't aware of but still that is no excuse in my book. Definitely time for a heart to heart but if he is anything like my hubby that wont be easy to acieve when it comes to money.

there is the special person who can make you smile, cry, hate and feel other emotions in a different way that others can. and it's all because of love.

There is a expression which answers your question: "There's a thin line between love and hate" As long as you love your husband more than you hate him, i think there is no problem. But in your case, i should talk to your husband. He has to understand that accusing someone without having any evidences, is wrong! And especially in your case, because he is married to you! He has to trust you! I hope he said sorry afterwards?

Wow that was harsh for him to blame it on you. Some people just say out anything and dont even stop to think if they really hurt any1 or not, like they have a mouth and they just use it to the full. eVEN I HAVE TO GO THROUGH PEOPLE LIKE THIS, ITS LIKE NO WAY OUT, YEAH AT TIMES IO THINK I DO LOVE HIM AND AT TIMES, I HATE HIM MORE THAN ANYTHING. i GUESS IT DOES HAPPEN, BUT CHK THAT IT DOESNT HAPPEN AGAIN, i mean he cahrging you with something lik ethat..

i think so. i love my boyfriend very much. but there are these times that i hate him so much. he has some manners that i really really hate. especially at times he spent too much money and time with useless stuffs rather than doing more important things. he doesn't know how to prioritize things. but though we're like that, we don't sleep hating each other and tries to solve the matter. i think i am starting to love him and his being exceptional.

Let me say first that this is his problem that he needs to work on, he should be able to trust you and not go off on you about things like that, try to open up some better lines of communication and working together to figure out any issues that may come up. Also you are loving the person and hating some of the things that he does but the fact that your willing to accept his faults and still have the same love feelings for him shows that you are in it for the right reasons

it is common that we some times love a person and hate them at the same time well in your case your husband was very much rude on you some people are a bit like that minded which cannot be changed all of a sudden your husband all by himself has to realize that he has to be happy at home as it would not be the case at work