"No Respect I tell 'ya. No Respect at all."

United States
May 16, 2008 1:53pm CST
If you're a little sister or brother in ur family, regardless of your current age, do you still feel that you are undermined? Overlooked? Not taken seriously and treated like a child? It drives me berserk. I'm 38, very mature and a widow without kids. Yet despite all of my adult trials and tribulations I'm still treated like the baby. That's not a good thing, peeps. D@mmit I've more than earned my share of respect. I'm sure others out there have too. I have confronted my remaining siblings [2 are deceased] about this, before U ask. What happens? I'm ignored. I've never, ever asked for help and when I've asked them if they & their friends, of whom they've dropped lots of dough on by buying raffles & girl scout cookies & avon/ Mary Kay & rubbish from Publishers Clearing House, could they please donate $2.00 bucks to me via PayPal to help towards me keeping my flat, resuscitate my floundering awareness company & towards my much needed gastric bypass. That's it, just 2 bucks a person. I'll even add them as a friend on my 2 Myspace pages where i set it up for them & the others for easier access if they do & send all who contribute a thank you comment on their profile page. I'm not asking for the moon or $25,000.00 like my eldest brother Michael did 7 years ago. *And he's healthy, no kids w/ a wife & a good paying job w/ the federal government & military!* And these people can't part with or ask their friends or co workers to part w/ two bucks. Nothing and it hurts. I've helped them, I've helped others when I had next to nothing. Now I've got nothing. Some family. Some friends. I'm venting, guys. Sometimes I feel that my being kind to people and helping them when I asked nothing in return, and now when I need it no one is there-- it was a waste. It was all in vain. This is hopeless and I feel like ... nevermind. I've said enough. Tae care gang. And if you don't have family or friends like this, consider yourself blessed. Ciao. Jennifer
1 response
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
17 May 08
I think that your problem is you don't give yourself the respect that you deserve. If you only think to ask for $2.00 from each of your siblings then they would surely think that your problem is not critical enough to consider. You should try a bigger figure $20 or $200 or even something close to the $25,000 your brother asked for and got, if you can swing it and I am sure they will take notice. The problem is I think that they think you're ok when you're not, but you can't get yourself to ask for more because that's all you need. Try asking for more and see how they react. If they won't give you $2.00 then there is no loss for you. You have all to gain.