can you believe someone hate his wife?

I think that depends on what she has done. Lets put our selves in the husbands shoes. Would we be able to forgive them for anything. There are somethings that they can be forgiven for. However you should think about what you do before you do it. If it is something you would not be able to forgive him for then you should not expect him to forgive you.

The people who hate are the cruel ones. Way too many husbands blame their wives for things that are not their problems. If a husband and wife can't get along, they should part, and go their own ways.