would it be ok???
By roanne05
@roanne05 (1290)
Oman
May 17, 2008 4:45am CST
would it be oki if your bf/gf still has communication with their x-gf/x-bf? for me no...past i past right? why can't they end it totally? i am single right now but when i have i don't like him still having communication with his x-gf.how about you??
6 responses
@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
17 May 08
I would feel pretty uncomfortable with that, too. My husband doesn't really seem to even like any of his previous girlfriends though, so I don't really have to worry about it I guess! I guess it might depend on the girl though if I was in that situation. If I trusted my husband, and I had met the girl and felt comfortable enough with her to know that she wouldn't try anything weird with him, then I might be ok with it. I think I would still not really like it, but if I knew nothing would happen, then I would probably try not to flip out about it, lol. I don't communicate with my ex-bfs cause it feels weird to me when I have someone else, so it's nice that my husband also doesn't communicate with his ex-gfs.
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
18 May 08
good for you he does not have communication with his ex-gf. do you think you can feel comftable with an ex-gf of your husband??? me i don't really know. maybe it really depends 'coz woman has this 6th sense...maybe we can feel that the girl still has somehing for their man or not...
@princess12toes (9)
• United States
18 May 08
if you like someone enough to date them, why wouldn't you be friends after? what are you afraid of?
SURE other girls will be attracted to him - but he has chosen YOU.
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
18 May 08
i am not afraid of anything..i just feel uncomftable with the idea! maybe it depends on where starte and ended..if the case is you've started as friends then be freinds again. if the ending is goo then again be freinds...but what if it ended-up bad??fr sure it wuld take time...or even time cannot heal?what do you think???
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
17 May 08
it is ok with me if they still have communication..its up to you rgf or bf if they going to cheat on you..it trust my bf..and i know he will not break it..once it breaks it will not be the same..you have to trust your going to be bf.. just put trust on him..and you will see..whats next
@lovingyou (66)
• Indonesia
19 May 08
nooooooo.... i dont like if my boyfriend talk to his x-gf,even to girl that he ever crush on.. argh.. luckyly I'm his 1st gf.. but i still dont like whether he tell about a girl that he ever crush on.. ussualy I mad on him..
