Is she love me? I'm confused, please guide me!!!

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@sdas86 (6076)
Malaysia
May 17, 2008 9:49am CST
Hi, I'm having a very weird feeling towards a girl. I always wanted to chat with her and SMS her and talk to her. I always feel that I wanted to look at her and stay with her. The problem is I don't know how she feel about me. Sometimes, she don't reply my SMS and sometimes she is very close to me and chatted a lot. I'm really confused. I don't know whether she like me or not. Anyone have experienced this scenario before? Please guide me. Thanks!!
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17 responses
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
17 May 08
Hello, Sdas86! Well, there are many ways to find out, but I think that the traditional one is still the best. Just go to her and tell her how do you feel about her. Face to face, not by SMS nor by an online chat. Show your feelings about her, tell her that you think you like her, and ask her what kind of thought she has about you: friendship, love, or none at all? She'll have to give you an answer, but not necessarily on the right time. Once it's done, all you have to do is act towards it. Respectfully, Munhozmib.
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@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
17 May 08
Thanks. I will do as you say. I will go ask her directly and hopefully I get the answer I want. Thanks a lot for the respond. :-)
@Elixiress (3878)
17 May 08
The best way to find out is to ask. Some people are just friendly people and she could be like this with anyone, whereas other people don't want to come on too strong and that is why she is being slightly withdrawn.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
17 May 08
Thanks for your respond. I'm not too sure about what she think. Could you guide me and give me a good way to ask her whether she have feeling towards me?
@Elixiress (3878)
17 May 08
I am all for people being direct and asking straight out, but many people don't have the confidence to do that, maybe do it by text or something to make it a little easier?
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
17 May 08
Maybe I should try to ask her when I go out with her some other day. I think that using SMS will not be very effective as sometimes, she don't reply my SMS.
• India
19 May 08
u r right u love her but not know she love you or not the main thing u do that focus on her. available for her all time care her 24 time than she says you I LOVE YOU . if u love her than care her all time because after this it is clear u love her.but one thin remember EVERYTHING IS IN GOD'S HAND. SO TRUST ON GOD AND DO THE RIGHT.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
20 May 08
Hi, Thanks.
• United States
19 May 08
Well, let me ask you? Why do you like her? What is it about her that makes you feel that way?
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
20 May 08
Hi, I don't know how to explain the feeling. I like her because she is the first girl that can give me such special feeling. I never have such feeling towards a girl before. :-)
• United States
20 May 08
Well you should tell her that she is special to you and why but if she just wants to be friends then you'll understand. You will never know until you ask her. Good Luck :-)
• India
18 May 08
listen dude...... u just gotta do one thing to know if she loves u or not...... assmeble all the guts in you and then say whatever you feel about her in your heart..... and then let her speak ........... let her say what she thinks............
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, Thanks for the advice. I will do it. I will tell her how I feel and wait for her replies. I can see that a lot of responds here tell me to ask her directly. I will definitely do it and thanks a lot for the responds. :-)
• India
19 May 08
yeah thats really good of u...........
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
27 May 08
best advice is just keep chatting it up with her and just let it flow . she must like your company if she has talked with you in the past . It all is a risk really but i think it will be a good one .
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
27 May 08
Hi, Thansk for the respond. I have told her how I feel about her but she didn't reply me. I think I will keep the situation like normal because I don't want to lose her.
@Antianara (608)
• Australia
18 May 08
just tell her how you feel... it's a big leap but you could end up somewhere very special.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, There are only 2 possibilities, 1 is "We are in a relationship" and another 1 is "We can continue to be friends." Thanks for the respond. :-)
@exinco (214)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
don't so believe in online relationship. many people was cheated
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, I know her before I chat online with her. She is in the same university with me. I know her when I was walking around in the university and I walked up to chat with her. That was the first time I have guts to go and chat with a girl, my feeling towards her is very strong the 1st day we met until now.
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
18 May 08
Just be honest with her about how you feel and take it from there. If she doesn't feel the same, then at least you'll know. Maybe she just wants to be friends or who knows maybe there is more to it. You won't know unless you talk about it.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, You are right, I should tell her how I feel and at least I know how she feels towards me. At least I have an answer and will not keep on confusing all the time. :-)
• India
18 May 08
Friend, make sure that girl is not having relation with others buddies like You. She might have. That is why she is very close to you and some times not. She might be dealing with others. If she like you she should respond to your SMS immediately on receipt. One thing is sure, she like you upto a percentage. Keep on sending SMS and try to chat with her. One day she will be Yours. Best of Luck.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, I will keep on sending SMS to her. Hope that 1 day she would be with me. :-)
• China
19 May 08
my dear friend: I want to say if you do love her , please do not hesitate to pursue her ! or you will regret in your life !
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
20 May 08
Hi, Thanks. I agree with you. We only have 1 life and life is short. We should work hard to pursue the one we love or else we will regret.
@maquisa (316)
• Philippines
18 May 08
actually everything starts with a talk...yuo should ask her now or regret soon...you can't read her mind,nothing will happen if you ask and know what she really feels towards you...hope it helps..
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, Thanks for the responds. Ask her and get the answer is the best way to know how she feels.
@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
18 May 08
I agree its a rather tough sort of circumstance, yet you need not be very tensed, every problem has its specific solution. Its really easy say that one can simply ask her how she feels, yet, if deeply considered, its not that easy: It even includes the risk of losing her friendship, I would suggest that you need to give her some more time, try observe her, with time, you might decipher what she really seeks dear.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
20 May 08
Hi, Thanks for the respond. One of the problem is the risk of losing friendship with her. That is one of the problems I always think of. So, until now I haven't ask her and I'm waiting for a good time and chance.
• Romania
18 May 08
you have to be honest with her,not sending her a sms to tell something,go straight and say it in her face,she will appreciate that.in my opinion,not the response is important,you have to be direct with you first,if you can do that,then it will be much easier. with respect, ina
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, I have a problem to meet her directly, she always refuse to go out with me. So, it is quite hard to meet her and tell her how I feel towards her directly. I will try my best to ask her out and hopefully she will go out with me.
@agfarm (930)
• United States
17 May 08
I'm sure this lovely lady with whom you are Speaking would love to talk to you...I'm not sure what a SMS is ( I'm technologically-Challenged ) ( Or retarded take your pick ) But I think you would be wonderful to Chat w/ Perhaps She's technologically-Challenged as well. As for whether she likes you or not......Ask her! Don't Be shy.....what's the worst that could Happen? Then again what if you ask her and Find out She's Madly in love with U ? Just Imagine the Possibilities!!!!!!
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, SMS is short message service using mobile phones. Thanks for your respond. You are right, I should ask her. I hope that it will be Good news. Thanks for giving a optimist advice, you help me feel better. Thanks. :-)
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
17 May 08
i'm not sure how far you've gone as friends but it seems to me that you don't know each other enough yet to keep a constant communication with each other. but come to think of it, not all friends talk and chat a lot right? we have other stuff to think about too. like work, school, finances and other personal matters. so i think it's understandable if she can't respond to your sms all the time. you might want to send her quotes from time to time to keep her reminded of you remembering her. and maybe you can hangout with your friends and ask her to come along. then if things go smoothly, try to ask her out.. from there, try to get to know her and who knows whats next. :)
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, When I hangout with my friends, I tried to ask her out but she never reply and I think that she never want to join. So, I have a bad time to think of a way to ask her out. Your advice give me a better idea to know her better. I will try to send her sms everyday(I don't care if she replies me or not, I will continue to do it), and maybe try to ask her out. Hope fully someday she will know that I am really true to her. :-)
@sturner03 (326)
• United States
17 May 08
Yes it sucks but you will never know until you ask. start talking to her online that will start the connection but you don't have to get to personal. If she's not returning messages she could be busy or maybe she's playing hard to get.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi, Maybe you are right. She doesn't want to reply me maybe she want to test my determination and how true my feeling towards her. I will try to ask her when I have the chance. Thanks for the respond. :-)