Is she love me? I'm confused, please guide me!!!
By sdas86
@sdas86 (6076)
Malaysia
May 17, 2008 9:49am CST
Hi,
I'm having a very weird feeling towards a girl. I always wanted to chat with her and SMS her and talk to her. I always feel that I wanted to look at her and stay with her.
The problem is I don't know how she feel about me. Sometimes, she don't reply my SMS and sometimes she is very close to me and chatted a lot.
I'm really confused. I don't know whether she like me or not. Anyone have experienced this scenario before?
Please guide me. Thanks!!
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17 responses
@munhozmib (3836)
• Sao Paulo, Brazil
17 May 08
Hello, Sdas86!
Well, there are many ways to find out, but I think that the traditional one is still the best. Just go to her and tell her how do you feel about her. Face to face, not by SMS nor by an online chat. Show your feelings about her, tell her that you think you like her, and ask her what kind of thought she has about you: friendship, love, or none at all?
She'll have to give you an answer, but not necessarily on the right time. Once it's done, all you have to do is act towards it.
Respectfully,
Munhozmib.
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@Elixiress (3878)
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17 May 08
The best way to find out is to ask. Some people are just friendly people and she could be like this with anyone, whereas other people don't want to come on too strong and that is why she is being slightly withdrawn.
@Elixiress (3878)
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17 May 08
I am all for people being direct and asking straight out, but many people don't have the confidence to do that, maybe do it by text or something to make it a little easier?
@amarjeet08 (63)
• India
19 May 08
u r right u love her but not know she love you or not
the main thing u do that focus on her. available for her all time care her 24 time than she says you I LOVE YOU . if u love her than care her all time because after this it is clear u love her.but one thin remember EVERYTHING IS IN GOD'S HAND.
SO TRUST ON GOD AND DO THE RIGHT.
@angelmarie1003 (88)
• United States
19 May 08
Well, let me ask you? Why do you like her? What is it about her that makes you feel that way?
@angelmarie1003 (88)
• United States
20 May 08
Well you should tell her that she is special to you and why but if she just wants to be friends then you'll understand. You will never know until you ask her. Good Luck :-)
@yshashikant (401)
• India
18 May 08
listen dude......
u just gotta do one thing to know if she loves u or not......
assmeble all the guts in you and then say whatever you feel about her in your heart.....
and then let her speak ...........
let her say what she thinks............
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
27 May 08
best advice is just keep chatting it up with her and just let it flow . she must like your company if she has talked with you in the past . It all is a risk really but i think it will be a good one .
@Antianara (608)
• Australia
18 May 08
just tell her how you feel... it's a big leap but you could end up somewhere very special.
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi,
I know her before I chat online with her. She is in the same university with me. I know her when I was walking around in the university and I walked up to chat with her. That was the first time I have guts to go and chat with a girl, my feeling towards her is very strong the 1st day we met until now.
@arvndrnair (250)
• India
18 May 08
Friend, make sure that girl is not having relation with others buddies like You. She might have. That is why she is very close to you and some times not. She might be dealing with others. If she like you she should respond to your SMS immediately on receipt. One thing is sure, she like you upto a percentage. Keep on sending SMS and try to chat with her. One day she will be Yours. Best of Luck.
@dengtongsheng (9)
• China
19 May 08
my dear friend:
I want to say if you do love her , please do not hesitate to pursue her ! or you will regret in your life !
@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
18 May 08
I agree its a rather tough sort of circumstance, yet you need not be very tensed, every problem has its specific solution. Its really easy say that one can simply ask her how she feels, yet, if deeply considered, its not that easy: It even includes the risk of losing her friendship, I would suggest that you need to give her some more time, try observe her, with time, you might decipher what she really seeks dear.
@just_ina_2005 (1)
• Romania
18 May 08
you have to be honest with her,not sending her a sms to tell something,go straight and say it in her face,she will appreciate that.in my opinion,not the response is important,you have to be direct with you first,if you can do that,then it will be much easier.
with respect,
ina
@agfarm (930)
• United States
17 May 08
I'm sure this lovely lady with whom you are Speaking would love to talk to you...I'm not sure what a SMS is ( I'm technologically-Challenged ) ( Or retarded take your pick ) But I think you would be wonderful to Chat w/ Perhaps She's technologically-Challenged as well.
As for whether she likes you or not......Ask her!
Don't Be shy.....what's the worst that could Happen? Then again what if you ask her and Find out She's Madly in love with U ?
Just Imagine the Possibilities!!!!!!
@_Honey_ (780)
• Philippines
17 May 08
i'm not sure how far you've gone as friends but it seems to me that you don't know each other enough yet to keep a constant communication with each other. but come to think of it, not all friends talk and chat a lot right? we have other stuff to think about too. like work, school, finances and other personal matters. so i think it's understandable if she can't respond to your sms all the time. you might want to send her quotes from time to time to keep her reminded of you remembering her. and maybe you can hangout with your friends and ask her to come along. then if things go smoothly, try to ask her out.. from there, try to get to know her and who knows whats next. :)
@sdas86 (6076)
• Malaysia
18 May 08
Hi,
When I hangout with my friends, I tried to ask her out but she never reply and I think that she never want to join. So, I have a bad time to think of a way to ask her out.
Your advice give me a better idea to know her better. I will try to send her sms everyday(I don't care if she replies me or not, I will continue to do it), and maybe try to ask her out. Hope fully someday she will know that I am really true to her. :-)
@sturner03 (326)
• United States
17 May 08
Yes it sucks but you will never know until you ask. start talking to her online that will start the connection but you don't have to get to personal. If she's not returning messages she could be busy or maybe she's playing hard to get.