how do you choose your lifetime partner?

@Chadanne (253)
Philippines
May 17, 2008 8:40pm CST
Choosing a lifetime partner is a hard process. It is like a riddle that keeps running on your mind. Do we just choose our partners because of their physical appearance? humor? Status in the community? Money? Or is there something more? To those who are already married, do you think your wife/husband is really the person you are meant to be with? How did you feel it?
4 responses
@goldeneagle (6743)
• United States
18 May 08
I met mine at a party...we been together every since...that was 8 years ago...
@Chadanne (253)
• Philippines
18 May 08
How did you know that he/she is the one you want to spend your life with?
• United States
18 May 08
I don't really know to tell you the truth...we just kind-of took it one day at the time and it happened
• Philippines
1 Jun 08
I'm not sure if you really choose who you wanna be with. I mean, I, myself, I can't tell yet, cause I'm not married, but I have always had seen myself with my ex-bfs as their wife if I get married to 'em. I actually have always think about the future and always felt that they are the ones. But I guess, it is when the right time and the right guy comes. You have to know the person first and be friends. I think relationship swill truly work if you start as friends. And I have read that people who started as friends last for a long time and ended as couples and never thought they will.. I think it is just the knowing the person really well, and it just hits you, "Man, s/he's someone I wanna spend my life with for the rest of my life!"
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
18 May 08
I didn't do the choosing. I let "Destiny" do it for me , and it was free of charge ! Aha ! And, "Destiny" did a wonderful job. We are happy together ever since !
@hhw521 (216)
• China
28 May 08
this is hard to deceid,i think that if you find your Mr.right, i could just have sence.