Married by family choice?

if both are willing to work it out and learn to love and respect each other i think they will be happy.

well. it's scary ... didn't she have the chance to do ta'aruf first? well actually in my family.. my parent or big family offer some one for me.. but they don't push me to choose if i don't like it. so it's an option though.. well if i choose the one they offer. i still have to get along with that person first then i decide i will marry her or not.