Please wear your seat belt and don't speed.....

@dmillman (2273)
United States
May 18, 2008 3:02pm CST
I'm only saying this for your own good, so that your family doesn't have to go through what my family just went through last week. My husband's cousin and her husband were speeding and not wearing their seatbelts, and got into a fatal accident. They are both dead. They have three young children, horses, dogs, bunnies, etc. They died on Mother's Day, which also happened to be their daughter's birthday. Please don't type that they shouldn't have been speeding, and that they should have been wearing their seatbelts. That will be hurtful. I just want to remind you to take care of yourselves, so that something like this doesn't have to happen again to provide a wake-up call.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
18 May 08
dmillman thanks for reminding us because we can all forget these life saving things. I am scared silly every time I go out with my best friend Nelda as the seat belts in her car do not work and she has not had time nor money to replace them. it would just take one moment to get into an accident well I won't go there but you all know what I mean. I am going to have to plead with her to get it done for her own safety I love her dearly.
@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 May 08
Thank you GRandpa Bob! It's sad to hear about it no matter who it is, but when it's someone you know, it always hits you closer to home.
• United States
18 May 08
im so sorry for your loss. not to worry. i always wear my seatbelt and if i ever start driving it will be a requirement if one wants to ride im my car. if they don't want to wear it they can walk. probably be good for them anyway. i send my best wishes
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@Fishmomma (11377)
• United States
18 May 08
Thank you for the wake up call. Its quite sad that this happened. My prayers to your family at this very hard time.
@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 May 08
You're welcome Fishmomma, and thank you for the kind words!
@lilybug (21107)
• United States
18 May 08
I am sorry for your loss.
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
18 May 08
Thank you lilybug.
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
18 May 08
Thank you for caring enough to caution us. I'm so sorry for your loss! I lost an aunt who didn't wear her seat belt, she could've been saved by it. My prayers are with you and your family, especially those poor children.
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 May 08
You're welcome, and thank you for the kind words.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
18 May 08
I am so sorry for your loss.
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
18 May 08
Thank you katsmeow1213.
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@AmbiePam (89171)
• United States
19 May 08
I'm so sorry to hear that. I always wear my seatbelt, although my father doesn't. I always ask him to, but he never does. It bothers me a great deal.
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 May 08
Thanks AmbiePam. I'm glad that you always wear your seatbelt, as I do too.
• United States
19 May 08
I and my husband have been a long time wearer of seat belts. My son many years ago got on our case about not wearing our seat belts. We got in the habit a long time ago due to our sons vigilance on keeping on us about it. So now it is a habit that we do automatically without thinking about it. Condolences to your family. It is always a very sad thing when something like this happens. I will keep you all in my prayers.
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 May 08
Thanks for your kind words sunshinelady, and I'm glad to hear that your family always wears yours.
@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
19 May 08
That is sad to hear Dillman. Thanks for thet reminder. Sometimes I do get into a vehicle and forget to put on the seat belt. Oh dear...What will happen to their kids and pets ect....I am really saddened to hear of you lost. May the God of peace be with you and the family as you go through this time of loss. (lol)
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 May 08
Thank you for your kind words tjades. I hope you use this as a reminder to wear your seatbelt at all times.
@mikeysmom (2088)
• United States
19 May 08
my deepest sympathies to you and your family. i feel terribly for the children. what will happen to them? it is beyond sad. it is a reminder for all of us to slow down and take that extra few seconds to put on our seat belts. thank you for reminding us. i will pray for the children.
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@mikeang (73)
• Singapore
19 May 08
I am partially in tears when I read this. It is a very sad thing and we in this place are with you. In Singapore it is compulsory for vehicles under pain of fines and demerit points and yet some do not belt up. A recent incident involving a student in a school bus got the rule extended (in the process of) to school bus as well. We will pray for the family.
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 May 08
Thank you for the kind words. It's also good to hear that other countries have seatbelt laws. We have them here, but they just didn't wear theirs.
• Philippines
19 May 08
Thanks for the reminder and I am sorry for your loss.
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 May 08
You're welcome, and thank you!
• United States
19 May 08
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. That was a serious wake-up call.
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@dmillman (2273)
• United States
19 May 08
Thanks for your kind words brianna94.