"Keeping Up Appearances"

@Rozie37 (15499)
Turkmenistan
May 19, 2008 1:15am CST
This is one of the funniest commedies I have ever seen in my life. It is a sitcom about a wife who is constantly pretending to be more than she really is in order to impress her friends and the people around her. I think that it is almost as funny as "I Love Lucy." Do you know anyone who pretends to be something they are not, just to look good for other people? Do they do a good job of it or are they only fooling themselves? http://www.bbc.co.uk/comedy/keepingupappearances/index.shtml
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@Adelida2233 (1005)
• United States
19 May 08
I love this show. Mrs. Bouquet(Bucket) is hilarious. Have you seen Fawlty Towers, it's another British Comedy from the same years. If not, check that out as well. As for your actual question, I think everyone to an extent puts up a front when they first meet people, clearly not like this TV show, but everyone wants to be seen as a better version of themselves, it's human nature.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
19 May 08
Yeah, I guess you are right. I do not think that I have ever seen the other one, I will have to check it out on Youtube and get back to you.
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@madlees (1377)
• India
19 May 08
As I have said earlier, I have not seen this serial. There are many who put up front, when they meet strangers, since they would not like to be left out in anything. But then it'll taper off as the y get used to eachother. That show will not be there..Don't you think so adelda? there is no use putting on a facade with the people you know very well..
@madlees (1377)
• India
19 May 08
Yes Rozie, you can see those types whereever you go. I have seen some and they have made me laugh. It is very difficult to maintain the appearances, oneday or the other the truth will come out. Then what will happen? Some will enhance the money and the position they have just to show off. How long canthey show it off like that if the guests come and stay in their home for a longer period, thinking it is not difficult for them. Some who would not have passed out school but say that they had passed out college and know everything. When you talk with them for sometime we'll know how wrong they are. There is no point in making up stories of having a better life than one has and getting into difficulties while trying to show them off. I prefer to tell the truth of what I am or what my family is made of etc. Keeping up appearances is very difficult. I have not seen the serial but I have seen in real life people like that.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
19 May 08
"Oh what a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to decieve." Well I have to admit, I have been on both sides and believe me it is hard to keep up with the lies. Do you know that you can lie so long that you begin to believe your own lies. That is when you need help. I can tell when a person is lying. Maybe because I was once an expert. With lying, you have to have a very good memory. I will listen to a person tell me something one time and then the next time they tell me something totally different. Sometimes I will call them on it, but most of the time I don't.
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@madlees (1377)
• India
19 May 08
no Rozie, There is no point in calling them wrong. They'll be prepared with an answer to that also. If you know who they are lying keep that in your heart and be careful when they tell you something that concerns you. I do that and get saved most of the times. I can never tell a liar, that too when they are clever. I have been caught in their web many times, but I think I don't learn from mistakes..
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
19 May 08
right now i cant say i havent known someone who acts or pretends something who in reality they are not.since im too engrossed with my family and work..ive got friends too..but havent noticed it in them ... but i had experienced once in my college days a friend..who i think the most lovable one but i found out that she was just making a face infront of me and i hate it..
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
20 May 08
If must be very painful to believe that a friend cares for you, only to find out later that they have been lying to you about things. I am sorry you had to experience that.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
19 May 08
The very first time that I went to North America Rozie I sat in my hotel room and channel hopped. "Keeping up Appearances" was the only show that I found that was something that I wanted to see. All that way just to watch something that I could have seen at home. I have known many Hyacinths. I worked once with a woman that bought her house in the best street, drove a smart car, always boasted about her daughter the Flight Attendant and her membership of the golf club. But she didn't have a single friend in the World. To have someone that close would have betrayed the fact that really her existence was very empty and shallow. It is what we are inside that matters, not what we own or the way that we look.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
19 May 08
No one is born a good person. You have to decide that you want to be someone worth knowing and it takes a lot of work to build good charactor. But like they say, "If you are ugly on the inside, you are ugly on the outside."
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@paid2write (5201)
19 May 08
When I watched the show I always felt sorry for the woman who lives next door to Hyacinth. She get so nervous in Hyacinth's house, for fear of spilling something or leaving a mark. That would be me.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
20 May 08
I know what you mean. But after a while, it is hard to feel sorry for people like that. She keeps coming back for the abuse and allowing Hyacinth to get away with it. And some people are so low that they will never pass up the chance to treat another like a doormat.
• Israel
19 May 08
I think that those that constantly pretend to impress friends and people around them are most times doing a good job of it. You know first it is not an easy job to pretend for people without being ditected. Most time people i know who do alot of pretence, dont really do them to fraud others but to be accepted into a group, others do it to keep up with the expectations of the friends or those around them. Though the truth may come any time, but i still say more energy to the arms of those who do this as it is not an easy thing to live a false life. People might feel disapointed if they found their friends who they feel are sopposed to be hot to be just cool or those they think to be white to be black. It dememorise people when they come to find out that their friends have being leing about who the really are too. So it is never easy any way, and for it i would advice everyone to show their real life and allow people who really care about them to accept and love them.
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
20 May 08
Yes it is very exhausting to attempt to keep up with your lies. It is also painful to know that a friend has been lying to you. I have learned from experience that it is best to just tell the truth in the first place and you won't have to deal with all the hurt feelings in the second place.
@madlees (1377)
• India
19 May 08
Yes, they will get caught at one time or the other. But when they get caught how would they show their face to the others who had believed the facade all this time. It will be very difficult and the freinds who come to know that their friend was putting on a facade all these time , how will they feel ? I don't know and I would never like to be in their shoes either...
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@Carmetaf (309)
• United States
19 May 08
I love this show! I was watching it on BBC a few days ago, the episode where they are renting/buying (I walked into the show 1/2 way through) a boat. I was in stitches the entire show, it was so funny First she had to get her hubby dressed for the part, he looked like PopEye the sailor man, then they are on the docks and people are laughing at them for their dress, then they get to the boat they THOUGHT was theirs and Hyacynth finds out that it is not, then they get to the one they're really renting and it's all shabby and too small... then they try to take it out on the water and end up in circles as neither knows how to maneuver it. Funny funny.... I also liked the episode where they tried out the new Rolls Royce.
19 May 08
It is funny I like Hyacinth's crazy family, and the poor downtrodden husband.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
20 May 08
The husband Richard is so pathetic to me. He needs to get a backbone and put that woman in her place. Oh like that would ever happen, LOL.
• United States
19 May 08
yeah. I know this kid named kevin. He is truly a wannabe he get on everyones nerves because he says he better then everyone. He thinks he is cool but kevin is not. he pretends to be something he aint a hotshot. People shuld really know there place
@darksome (24)
• United States
28 Jun 08
omg it's so funny although I have to admit that sometimes I get the tendency to want to punch Mrs. Bucket or should I say "Bouquet".