Holding on Relationships..
By imtrisha11
@imtrisha11 (66)
Philippines
May 19, 2008 1:30am CST
I don't know where should i start when i think of this topic because when it comes to love, i get speechless and i don't know why.?) Maybe im just too in love with someone whom i wanted to share my whole life with.8) Well, holding on relationships is not that easy as eating peanuts especially when both of you have many differences in life and when you have this "attitude problem". My partner and i mostly have things in common and we share lots of things all the time. But i have this so-called "attitude problem" of him which bothers me sometimes. It's just that there are things on him which i don't like and i guess it's very natural in a relationship. So, what i did was i talked to him and said everything that i don't like on him. And he accepted it all. I know that that attitude of him is really in him or it is difficult for him to changed it 'cause his used to it. I just have to adjust on it and he has a need also for some adjustments to make our relationship last.
No matter how perfect you think on your relatonship, some flaws would just appear and it sometimes make you disappointed. Just put trust on your partner and have prayers all along your way so that God will bless you always. Love each other more each day and stay sweet and never take your partner for granted. These are just some thoughts that a 17-year old lady could share to everyone. Too young but matured enough when it comes to love.
Have fun guys!;)
4 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
19 May 08
there is no such thing as a perfect relationship. we can only try for it to be as close to perfect but never perfect.
It is true about what you said... we Need to put God at the center of the relationship and trust that he will nurture and make the relationship grow. when you are guided by love for each other and prayers, nothing will go wrong and everything about you and him will be strong.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
19 May 08
When a relationship had gone too perfect in someone's thought. That time he/she can see clearly the leak or imperfection of the relationship. That time also the fragile time in the relationship, if one doesn't bring carefully, it will drop faster.
Imagine a love as a having-meal-satisfaction chart. Once the line had reached the peak, we get stuffed. We may have some more but it's just add a pain rather than a satisfaction. One should very carefully to let the "very-stuffed" into a normal situation. In here, the chart is moving down.
The same when the love is getting bored, someone should be very careful to not let the relationship fall down or it would be a disaster that would lead into a separation. Because we see clearly the imperfection of love on the peak, reflected by our and partner's weaknesses. Don't ever touch that weaknesses, or you would fetch a conflict inside your relationship.
The key is to balance everything, accept both sides, the sweet either the pain. Nobody's perfect, because they also want the same thing from us. When two sides are expecting but not giving by each, that's the most fragile time.
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
19 May 08
I like what you said on your second paragraph.
There are really no perfect person nor relationship. If one wants to have a lasting relationship he/she must know how to accpet the good and bad qualities of his/her partner. NEver ask him/her to change. Let him/her change him/herself if he/she wants to change. NOw what you could do if he/she wants to change give him/her all the support and encouragement he/she needed. But once he/she does not welcome change always make sure it will not be a big issue on your part since it may cause breakups. Remember that You are loving one single individual with multiple personality so it just mean that you must love and accept the whole person and not just a part of that person.
Goodluck and stay happy!
