How do you get over a broken heart?

Philippines
May 19, 2008 3:20am CST
You enjoy each other company, you share common interest and you sense a mutual attraction. Then, suddenly, the relationship dies, exploding in a burst of anger or melting in tears. I had a breakup with my ex boyfriend 8 months ago and I'm still bitter. I have a boyfriend now but it can't seems to take away the pain I felt when my ex bf and I broke up. So how do you get over a broken heart?
4 responses
@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
19 May 08
I understand how you feel I have had my heart broken a few times, it is the one of the worst pains to go through in life. The main thing that heals a broken heart is time unfortunately. Also try and realise why the realtionship broke up in the first place. Sometimes when you are broken up you only seem to remember the good times and not the bad. Try and hang around lots of close friends for support. Also keep yourself busy, take up new hobbies. Maybe have some time away from the new boyfriend to work out what you really want, absence might make you realise you do really love your new boyfriend. Hope this helps, take care.
• Philippines
19 May 08
Thanks. Actually, I always keep myself busy. And my new boyfriend is busy with his work so we only have time during Saturdays.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
19 May 08
Go to work, shopping, swimming, calling friends, accompany my parents, visiting my relatives, seeking discount boutique, bothering my boyfriend through s.m.s :P , or whatever, ---then go to sleep. What a day ^_^
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
19 May 08
yeah its heart when its parting time..but i know your in the stage of denial that's why its hard to walk forward..you have to accept the fact its gone..then when you realized it already..you can tell that your moving on..you have to do something busy to yourself and also enjoyable
@maquisa (316)
• Philippines
19 May 08
from a 5 yrs relationship...itz really hard to accept it at first,but we still have our familyy,friends and people who cares about us,think positively...i went to a vaction with my family and relatives, i join every activity that my friends and co workers enjoy,itz not my lost but his...always pray and smile,