love

May 19, 2008 5:06am CST
i love someone..... but we don't have understanding. i understand her always, but she don't want to understand me... actually i am not giving so much time as she want due to job as well as studies...... what you say...............what will i do....?
4 responses
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
19 May 08
Actually, you'd just answered your question. "actually i am not giving so much time as she want(s) due to job as well as studies..."
19 May 08
thnx for response, that the actual thing, so what wil i have to do...........
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
19 May 08
You may start to plan your schedule, spare a time be with her. My advice is to use your phone cell's reminder or anything that will alarm you. This worked well on my friend (man) who's also had the same dilemma with yours. He said, first week he would be a bit lazy when the reminder rang, because his works were just too many, as if they were never finished. But he fought the lazy, and go with her girlfriend. Now, this is the secret. Once her woman thanked and praised for spending a time for her. He felt respected, he said it makes him to gain a stamina to do on whole works, he did it all without thinking that the works never finished. Lately, he finished the work quicker and a multitude of ideas in his brain just flowing through her brain. He mentioned it just like drinking a rejuvenation potion. He managed to finish the works because the respect he gained from his g/f because of spending a time with her. But these may works for some times, until she can tell you out. First time you may won't get this praise, but lately after several times, she will. You will get your potion from her. Why don't you give it a try. Just spend a time in each day with her. Who knows you can get rid off the obstacles in your brain.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
19 May 08
just flowing through in *His* brain. sorry mistype.
@maquisa (316)
• Philippines
19 May 08
you both should sit and have a talk...you should have the time for everything and if you both take for granted what you have now,you should not let your self be stuck to it...TALK AND LISTEN!
• China
19 May 08
understanding is a mutual process need both of you and your GF join in.if you love her and she too, i suppose you should be able to find the balance.to talk with her and share your thinking that's very important.
@nanayangel (7879)
• Philippines
19 May 08
Hi there sourabh! I think that you should explain your side to her. She should understand. If she really can't understand, then maybe you should set her free so you both will not be depriving of the happiness that you two deserve.
19 May 08
thnx for response.......one thing more please tel me, if she wil not ready to understand. then.............................................?
@ayrin03 (318)
• Philippines
19 May 08
you have to talk to her sincerely..that's all maybe she didn't know that..
19 May 08
thnks for response........ but she know each and every thing, but she don't want to understand......now..........?