Do you find your closest friends outgrowing YOU?

Hey peeohdee... how are you doing today? hmmm... to tell you honestly, it's like the more one is growing older, the feeling of being alone is more stronger... i mean, i have so many close friends who already migrated and left the country. though of course, we are still communicating but it's not the same when we are together. i meet new friends lately and trying establish the same depth of closeness that i have with my friends before, however, this takes so much time and effort. moreover, for those who are still, except for a handful, i feel somehow, the same way that you feel. interests right now varies and paths we take in life and priorities differ. i feel like i am getting behind when in terms of relationships and stuff coz i am more into my career right now that boyfriends and crushes... just hang in there and keep them still, since the bonds you have established are treasures themselves... happy mylotting...

Actually, I think I outgrew them. I've always felt so much older than my friends. All they care about are their latest boyfriends, like you said. I never really dated, so I had no idea what it was like. They acted like there was something wrong with me because I never had a boyfriend.

hey there peeohdee, i know what your saying. i can totally relate. ive felt these emotions as well a few times. its like one minute they are saying 'dont ever change, or stay the way you are in your autograph book' but in the end they are the ones that change. i sometimes dont get it really. but i guess its part of growing up. and you dont sound like a shrew lol becuase i too am a believer on that saying. aside from certain family members i really do also think that you just have to rely on yourself and nobody else because if there is a time that they cant help you, you cant do anything about it anymore.