Do you have to be mean, to mean people?

Philippines
May 20, 2008 2:32am CST
Hey, guys i have the tendency to be mean to those people who i find mean... I think it is a defense mechanism on my part... What do you think, is it okay? Help me out... :)
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• Philippines
20 May 08
attacking the problem with the same meanness wont help. sometimes you just have to let it be. the best way to diffuse mean people is to always and sincerely smile at them. this way, you are influencing their perspective and helping them get through a tough time. smile.
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• Philippines
20 May 08
try to influence mean people's perspective: almost a job for superheroes. :) yes, that is very brave of you. me, dealing with a mean person, makes me wonder what i have done to be in that situation. i pray that god deliver me from mean people, and i do try to avoid them. i snap back at them sometimes, when smiling does not help..
• Philippines
21 May 08
Thanks for that... it is just at times you'll have to give them a dose of their own medicine... heheheheh... Happy mylotting... :)
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• Philippines
21 May 08
Great response.... happy mylotting
@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
21 May 08
Hi kenchiprincess. for me, i can never do that unless i am very enraged. usually, i just clam up and keep quiet. take care and happy mylotting
• Philippines
21 May 08
Hello there... I am okay except it's a little hot right now in my place...makes me feel whoozy and lethargic. how about you? welcome to mylot, btw
• Philippines
21 May 08
thanks for the response... :) how are you?
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