how do we judge???

You can't really quantify something like friendship and say that someone is a better friend than someone else. I think it is easier if you just group your friends. I don't but it just occurred to me. Best friend: Person that you actively go out of your way to spend time with. Friend: Person that you spend time with but only when it is convenient. Acquaintance: Person that you are on friendly terms with but when it comes down to it you don't really know much about them. Am I making sense? It really does work out in my head (I think) but I don't know if I am explaining it in words quite right.

Hi shahira, welcome to mylot I hope you enjoy your stay here. Well we don't judge they, life will judge. With the time you can see if they are really your friends or not. cheers

It really depends on a lot of things, your values, yuour need for a friend, your expectations, your reasons why you need friends, your circumstances,etc. because these are the things that will influence you in deciding who is or are your best friednd/s. Example if you are one who wants to be adored and always paid a compliment whether true or not, you will choose as best friend someone who does all this and caters to your narcissistic nature. If you are one who has many insecurities, you would tend to choose as best firend someone who bolsters up your self confidence. But is this the right way to choose? Definitely not. In choosing who among your friends is someone worthy of being cALLED best friend, choose someone who will help you grow, who will teach you to accept reality, who will help you overcome your fears and who will like you and be there for you when you need her the most. in short,someone who is not a fairweather friend.

Through her sincerity, trust, loyalty, and her intention of making friends.