Why does the people you love most are the ones responsible of hurting you?

they are the only people who can hurt you because of the reason that they are the only people that you love. you will never be hurt by someone you know for a day or someone who never touches your life... yah you're right! you are very careful with everything you do or you say to them because you dont want them to get hurt, but they are so insensitive to do the same to you.

i got a more practical approach according to me. well look at it in this way. a friend cancels meeting you to go meet his/her bf/gf. we think its ok.i understand. but a bf/gf cancels meeting you to meet a friend we are immidiately hurt and insecure. its the way we expect things from the person.i am not the most important person in my friends life. but i want to be the most important part of my gf's life.that s what most of us think and we arent wrong in thinking so.its just that you have to be more rational at times. let her feel so much about you that she herself cancels or takes you along to meet this friend. tweak things to suit you.dond try to break them. because you bear the loss ultimately.

The people who are close to our heart have the ability to control us beacause we are always expect something from them. The emotionally dependent people are more prone to this this kind of heart break.

because we don't care to others, if they do hurt us or not.. but, those who are close to us would do, because we care! :)