kids and baths

United States
May 20, 2008 8:42pm CST
I have a 8 year old son who hates taking baths... I don't know why he used to love taking them as a baby and toddler but now I have to almost fight with him to get in the tub.. What can I do to get him in the tub I don't want to brive him to get him any there, Any idea's you any other parents might have to help me out here....
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@marsha32 (6631)
• United States
21 May 08
Sounds like my grandson who is almost 7. We recently moved in with my mother, but where we were before there was only a shower, and that was hard enough! I figured moving here and having a tub would help but he's just not too interested. It's not been until the past couple of years that my 11 yr old daughter will take a bath without being told. Marsha
• United States
21 May 08
I think girls love taking baths and showers no matter what. I know when I was a child I used to love both.. I only got to shower at grandma's though and tub at home.. We didn't have a shower just a tub.. My parents told me showers don't get you 100% cleans so they too would use the tub... I beg the differ though... I think I just need to keep trying on this one... :) Thanks for your reply!!
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• United States
22 May 08
Funny!!! I recently have been telling my son, i am going to check you once your done so that i know you have taken a full bath, he don't stay in the tub long... I am thinking that has alot to do with his games that he plays he don't want to miss out on something... Not that he's going to or anything like that either... But I'm been working with him trying to get to bath every day that isn't working to well every other day though seems to be going ok but yet how long is that going to last too I am not sure... I do want to get him back to taking one every day... Thanks for your reply!!!
@marsha32 (6631)
• United States
22 May 08
I've been thinking back to my childhood. My mother only made us take a bath once a week, and that was Sunday evening. Makes me cringe now! LOL Just think how dirty we were for church on Sunday morning! I was in 6th grade and I will never forget someone in my class asking me if I knew just how dirty my neck was. I didn't know...but then I did, and I started taking a bath at least every other day after that and making sure to wash not only my neck but behind my ears too! Marsha
@sisterjinx (1135)
• United States
21 May 08
My youngest used to love baths too. When he was about 2 years old he spent the night at my mother in laws house. His aunt gave him a bath and did something to scare him. (still not sure what) He hated baths after that. We struggled and suffered for years with it. Finally a friend of mine suggested that we buy him a special toy that he would really love but that he could only play with in the tub. We did. It worked. He never argued about bathing again. He even asked sometimes.
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• United States
21 May 08
we've tried doing the toys but those don't seem to work much at all anymore.. I even let him pick the ones he wants to play with in the water, well you know as long as they can float and not sink... Very good suggestion thanks!
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
21 May 08
Well if toys didn't work maybe a swimming mask and snorkel? HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
21 May 08
I'm not really sure what to tell ya. My daughter used to love baths and swimming and all too but then all of a sudden, she got to where she wouldn't take her baths daily. I had to make her do it. Now that she is older, she bathes every day without being told. I think it is just a phase they go through at certain ages. I think your son just needs to be told how important hygiene is.
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• United States
21 May 08
it's funny you mentioned this because he don't have a problem with getting in the pool and playing every day during the summer that is or even the lake when we go swimming.. Just the tub... We've gone threw just about every option we can but not sure what more to do... Thank you so much for your reply..
@golfproo (1839)
• Canada
25 May 08
Hi There, My daughters still hate taking baths and they are in their teens! What I did when they were younger is let them go to the store and pick out their own bubble bath they could use in their tubs. That really seemed to work as they took some ownership. In fact it was hard to get them to come out sometimes! Just an idea. cheers,
• United States
25 May 08
I have done this too...Still don't help any either.. He's got a few different bubble baths and uses them, but it's still hard for me to get him in the tub.. However now that it's almost summer we will be going swimming alot, I know it's not the same but close enough! Thanks for your reply!!
• United States
21 May 08
Have you tried the shower? One of my sons (he is now 10) decided about a year or two ago that he didn't like baths, so I told him "you can take a bath or you can take a shower like daddy". Sure enough, showers are it now.
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• United States
21 May 08
He won't take showers either we tried that he just screams.. He's afraid it's going to get in his eyes.. We've tried getting him for the longest time to do it but he screams... I really don't know why the water isn't to hot just right actually..
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@magrylouyu (1627)
• United States
21 May 08
I would sugggest letting him take a shower. Maybe he just feels "too little" to be taking a bath like a "baby". You can try doing that. My daughter is only 4 and loves to take showers. Personally I would have him already taking showers, by the time they are 6 or 7 is a good time to try.
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• United States
21 May 08
I guess I am two years to late on that one... Giggles.. tried the shower thing no luck.. I think girls are way different than boys though... Boys wanna be dirty lol and girls want to be clean and tidy know what I mean? Thank you for your reply!
• United States
21 May 08
lol oh yes I know what you mean. I think my stepson is a little different, he hates being dirty. Any other boy I know LOVES to be dirty and would never get in the shower/bath if they had it their way.
• United States
22 May 08
ha ha that's funny, my son was like that when he was smaller, but I am not sure what happened...
@webeishere (36313)
• United States
21 May 08
I don't know my 8 year old grandsons likes or dislikes at home for baths. But when he spends the night he loves taking a bubble bath and I give him a can of my computer compressed air with the long skinny nozzle. He loves making the bubbles fly in the air from the can of air. Too cute. You can try something new for his entertainment maybe along these lines. Even some tupperware items so he has toys to play with. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
• United States
22 May 08
That air is expensive I couldn't believe how much it was at wal-mart for it... But that is an idea for sure.. He's more into toys in the tub than anything, I am fine with all that for sure.. I don't mind them as long he remembers to take them out and not throw them on the floor when he's done with them for me to step on and hurt myself with....
• United States
26 May 08
My son also done this at 7 years old I got on the internet and looked up pics of kids that had diseases due to being dirty and it had pics with the artilcals I read the artical to him and let him look at the pics it seemed to work he now takes his bath with no prob it also worked witht he tooth brushing ordeal I went through with him showing pics of rotten teeth and showed him the pics thank God!