why just help each other
By maquisa
@maquisa (316)
Philippines
May 21, 2008 4:32am CST
i wonder why some mylotters are so selfish,im still new in my lot,i feel sad when one of the highest earnings in mylot disregard me as a friends,why did he/she do it just because i still doesn't have lots of post? every body of us begins with nothing and zero earnings...i think mylot is not just because of money but willingness to help each other and multiply...thanks
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7 responses
@coolwater05 (55)
• Philippines
21 May 08
just ignore it and accept the fact.. Honestly most of the people feels like their in a competetion, that is why most of the people also prefers to pull down someone than to help...
I guess that how life is.. it is a rat race and learn how to adapt.. u take care, hope this will make you feel better..
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@coolwater05 (55)
• Philippines
21 May 08
your welcome..
Not everyone can do this but we.. so hell who cares if they dont want to help, lets just help those who are willing too in return..
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@luningning (43)
• Philippines
21 May 08
it is not a question of being selfish or having more earnings. its just that they find other topics, and maybe other people, more interesting. anyway just go on sharing your good ideas, keeping your light burning for others to see (to read)... just enjoy the discussions and learn from them. i know i learned some beautiful insights from the discussions which are useful in my daily relationships. i hope you do too...
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@kingcrapper (1536)
• United States
21 May 08
No matter where you go you will find people who just aren't willing to play the game. Mylot, to me, is not just a place to earn a coin or two but to also hear about what other people think and where they are from. The idea the other mylotter aren't there to help or whether they are selfish is confusing to me. The idea of sharing information and stories is a way to give...not counting your promotional score or the amount of money in your account! Live. Share. And experience others!
@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
21 May 08
I agree with you. Even though alot of people here are friendly, there is the occasional ones who won't even give you the time of day if you don't have a certain amount of posts or rating.
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@shannonjyl (421)
• Canada
21 May 08
Hi maquisa, Please try to be a little patient and no to judge people here to quickly. Because someone denied your friendship does not make them selfish. Perhaps that person was having a bad day. Or your avatar offends them? You have no idea why this person said no. I bet it had nothing to do with you and if it did that is why we have to have accept buttons. I cant believe this person wanted to hurt you. I have not met an unfriendly mylotter yet.
@eihdra (3115)
• Philippines
21 May 08
If you were rejected, there must be a valid reason why..How would one know if he/she is really selfish or not. I am not on anybody's side but just want to air mine..I read some posts of some old timers here about adding people they hardly know or read about..They too have some kind of problems with regards to just accepting whoever it is who wants to be friends. They say they have private messages from those new people that they don't like the content, like links to several money making sites, whereas, they didn't ask for it..It's like spamming them..Let's give the benefit of the doubt to all the people here..Unless they responded in a not so good a manner, let's just think that they have valid reasons..You'll come across some posts of those old timers that discusses their dilemma with some newfound friends and maybe you'll get to see what I mean..Meanwhile, enjoy posting..