loving wife

i think as you want such , in the same way the girl which is going to choose you as soul partner ,she also wants this. second i think it is only in our minds that our wife will not love us.after mariage ,she will love you .

hi friend dont b scared of marriage it is a bliss....i agree that we need to respect our parents but i m sure u will see the girl and talk to her before u get married...so that way u can know her likes and dislikes and if she is of ur frequency...all relationships are based on mutual understanding, compromising and respect for one another....u give all this she will surely reciprocate...in a marriage u really need to communicate ur thoughts with one another.....i have a love marriage and our parents have got us married...loving is easy, convincing parents is also easy, keeping love alive after marriage is a challange.......best way is talk how u feel abt one another actions spk louder than words so show u care.... best of luck

Even if you dont love someone and get married to a person whom you hardly know you could always start loving her afterwards. Love is liking the other person for what she is and respecting her and her family. Ignoring all the faults and liking all the good. I dont think that will be difficult for you

Hi, I think you are going to find a loving wife, for as long as you'd be a loving husband to her. The best way to get to know her better is to not to rush into marriage. It takes time to really know the other person and it would not be wise to jump into a relationship just because you are in the marrying age. In return, let her see the real you. If a person truly loves you, she'll accept you for who you are, though this doesn't mean you won't try to improve. Be your best self. That's what love can do...it brings out the best in each other.

no need to worry before i got married i too was worried but now i have a loving family but one thing is there you should work hard at making a marriage work. you should learn to share and care and be ready to accept your life partner with her individualities

For me marriage is a lifetime commitment between a man and a woman. My friend, there's no reason to be afraid. As long as you ask guidance and help from Lord He will guide you and protect you from any miserables that you encountered in the future.Put GOD in the center of your relationship. God Bless you.

We all wish for loving husbands and loving wives. I am sure that when the time comes, you will find a loving wife too. But in order to have a healthy atmosphere at home, you need to remember a few things…both your parents and your wife are equally important to you. As you want your wife to respect your parents, you should also respect her parents and care for them. Secondly please try and understand that these days girls are married at adult age i.e. they are no longer children. So as adults they have their own preferences and choices and overnight you should not expect her to like everything about your family and your house. Gradually and with patience and understanding, you will have to guide her towards accepting your parents as her own. Sometimes you will have to take your parents side against her and sometime you will have to speak up for her too. It is very difficult but I am sure that everything will work out fine.

someone that will respect me and some one that will love me whatever or whoever i am

I have a very loving marrage. I didn't have a certian age I was looking to get married. When you find someone that loves you she will respect your parents becouse without them she would not have you. I know when people get married they say they didn't marry the parents but I have never really understood that becouse you have married both of the parents when they marry you.

Well, I can't talk about wifes lol, but I hope you find someone nice and pretty to marry. But remember my friend that live together isn't a sea from roses. Have love and patience is the right way to be happy. cheers

It is quite sad how you are feeling the need to marry although you are not in love. I don't understand why people feel pressured into marriage by society of whatever. I personally never want to get married, because if I did I would want the whole big day, but that to me is a complete waste of money. You can love someone just as well out of marriage as you can in marriage. I don't think you should be getting married in the next few years if you haven't found the right person, because it will only end in divorce.

Hi there! When I get married, I want to be with the person I love and cherish. Because that would mean spending the rest of my life with that person and I want us to be happy together. I'm sure you will find somebody that is right for you.

I want my life partner to be simple, sincere, trustworthy, truthful, caring and loving...And I prefer love marriage rather than arranged marriage.

No need to be frightened, but you don't need to rush yourself either. Being at the age doesn't necessary mean you have to get on with it. There's nothing more wonderful in relationships than dating or as some call it ... courtship. This is the time for those involved to decide if they want to spend the rest of their lives with each other. You will know when she comes into your life through this courtship period. And one other thing that most of us tend to forget is that, if you want someone with specific qualities then you have to strive to have those qualities in you. I hope this helps!!