Which one of the two is better?

That is wondeful reply, which goes along with my thinking line too. (Again great friends think alike....LOL!) and I completely agree with you that managing house and social relations is more important than being highly educated. Many thanks for sharing. + rated.

Basically Deepak, I feel it's not only household management and skills. The second lady seems to have more skills....and I feel that way because you have mentioned them. Education seems to be the only plus point of the first lady. NOw, I'm not sure if she's got other good qualities. Now, I fall somewhere in between the two ladies...and not perfect in anything that you mentioned (especially right now my self esteem on the home management front is quite low). And I think I'm great as I am...lol Another thing about education. Honestly, I think education is an asset...but the problem with the education in India is that it doesn't really equip a person for practical life. I'm not talking about professionals here. But most people looking for life partners look for graduates and post graduates...while most of them lack other more important skills and sometimes don't even know anything in the subject they have specialized in. I have a neighbour who is a post graduate in GEography and she didn't even know the 4 south indian states and what languages were spoken in each! That's basic primary education and you wonder how someone like that can be a PG in that area! I'm not even a graduate! But I have so many skills that were utilized in various jobs and I was earning much more than any graduate or post graduate. And I also got to live my life and experience and learn other things...because I wasn't limited by it. Coming back to the two people in your post, though people have said otherwise (going by the other responses), it is easier to be attracted and like a person who is social and outgoing than someone who is an introvert and one has to make an effort to get to know them. I'm not saying the introvert is bad....but you just won't have too much of an opinion about her. That's human psychology at work...that's all. Because it's all on the outside and that's all one can see and judge. Coming from a joint family, I've seen people of both categories and though we are like one big happy family, I know when comparison arises how people see others...especially in India. Actually, I've got lots of things running across in my mind on this topic...lol

Super Excellent, I will come in details later.

Thanks for sharing, but I am afraid, you did not see the post thoroughly, both are working ladies, (first) one is a teacher in a school and the other one works from 10.00 a.m. to 5.00 p.m. in a office. Please see the post and then you may like to amend your views....LOL!

Many thanks for your revised views, I also endorse your views.

hahaha..thanks for that! I will choose the second one! I can say that she is a whole rounded partner! May not have that post degree but she both manage to work and help her partner and at the same time, she makes a home for the family by being a great wife and mother!

I may add here Pola that first one's husband holds a senior posts in a compnay and comes at about 10.00 p.m. and she is a teacher and comes at 1.00 p.m. at home, she gets plenty of time to look after her house-hold affairs, but she does not. Also, her husband is a good cook and whenever possible, he does help her in cooking. She is neither social nor has inclination to do so. While the second is also full time working lady, but she manages her house-hold affairs very effectively (her husband also helps her) and she is social too. I agree with you that all are different. Many Thanks for sharing your story with me, I did not know many things earlier, till you wrote about it, this time.

I really appreciate your intelligent thoughts and really delighted to know your thinking that social behaviour is also very important when we live in a society. You would go a long way in your life, I believe. Have a great day!

Thank you Deepak

So what I gather from your reply is that you are thinking on the same lines, on which I thought. It is always better to be practical and social in life. If you practicaly and can manage house hold affairs, nothing like that (even if you are less or say moderately edcuated). Managing the house (of course with the help of partner) is a positive trait and must be appreciated. Many thanks for your wonderful response.

I love this answer.... we almost have the same explanation on this topic. :D

If she is rude then I object to that outright but being an introvert is not a offense. Degrees hardly matter with respect to values we possess or should possess. I feel sorry.

I have another point to make. After re reading your post I got that she is introvert and not social. But deepak, I do not think that is any fault. Tell me one thing, Is she rude or not well behaved? If so then I would have taken it but being an introvert doesn't mean that she is bad. They are most miserably mis understood and no one knows better than me. lol.. So that makes me change my view a bit. Being not perfect with household chores should not make one 'bad' in the true sense of the term. In all fairness, there are graver things on earth that should be attached to the 'bad' tag, I guess. This I have already mentioned that in my response.

To your second part first, the first lady is not at all social and she is rude also. Though I rate her as introvert.She does not know how to maintain a relationship. To me practicaly knowledge and being social and be a good manager is more important than mere getting higher and higher degrees.

Your reply is not clear, which of the two are you supporting or favouring, if you have to choose one only?

You are right we are no one to judge anyone. Yet a question came in my mind - the crux of the issue was - Is not it important to be a good house hold manager and to get connected with your near and dear ones socially. I think the one who manages to get connected with her near and dear ones would be a bit better in comparison to the one, who is not very much interested in social links. Your reply is apt and very logical on the basis of facts furnsihed in the discussions. There are some hidden facts which I did not mention in the discussion due to some reasons. If I tell you those facts, I feel your opinion might change. Nonetheless, many thanks for sharing your candid, fair and frank views with all of us. Full marks for your bold reply.

So you agree with me that the one who is more social and more skills is better. Thanks for your wonderful views. Deepak

Thanks for sharing your views.

So what I gather from your reply is that you are thinking on the same lines, on which I thought. It is always better to be practical and the one who is able to manage her house would prove to be a better partner. Many thanks for sharing your thoughts.

You are smart, no doubt about it!!

2 smart ppl think alike...but one them is me ..whose the other one... hahaha juz kidding. good discussion

You appear to have thinking like me and are agreeing with me. In nutshell practical things in life are equally important. Thanks for sharing.

So you agree with me that the one who is more social and more skills is better. Thanks for your wonderful views.

Thanks for your detailed explanation and narration. I am sorry, I somehow missed your response and could not see it earlier. Full marks to you for your fantastic reply.

If somebody have have extra ordinary talent. He should have to utilize it on a better way.It is not perfect thing that who have a talent and utilizing his talent in good way. Some people who are dul they have ability to convey his good opinions to others

Thanks for the second one's choice, I also hold the same view.

You have not read the enitre post, it appears, please see it again, I have not spoken about being a 'cook' only. I agree with you that her husband can cook, but for she is there, she is a teacher, she has plenty of time, once she reaches home at 1.00 p.m. and her husband is a senior officer in a compnay comes at 10.00 p.m. at night, almost every day. Thanks for sharing.