How to choose?
By vipsupervip
@vipsupervip (58)
China
May 21, 2008 10:09pm CST
My friend,a lovely girl,ask me a thorny problem.
She has a boyfriend,but he isn't in the same city with her.Someday,she find a boy love her,and the boy together with her work.
She know her boyfriend's famliy is rich,but the boy is not.
She can't make sure her boyfriend if come back and marry to her.But the boy may could.
So,she is puzzled about how to choose.
I told her do what she want to.But she is still puzzled.
So I can't persuade her and turn to you who my wise friends for help.
How do you think that how to choose?
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4 responses
@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
22 May 08
Problem is which your friend loves? Her boyfriend or the other boy? You didn't mention. And another question, your friend seems considering marriage, not love huh? Better get things much more clear, otherwise i'd myself be too confused to give any sensible suggestions.
Enjoy life~~ Lynette
@vipsupervip (58)
• China
22 May 08
I mean two boy.
A boy is the girl boyfriend,other is a boy who love her recently.
She is 22,not very old,maybe she don't want to marry so early.But she must make sure who will be with her in the further.
So do you understand?And I express it clearly?If you still can't understand it,please leave message to me,OK?
@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
22 May 08
OK. Well, i mean your friend, this 22-year-old girl loves which one? Which does she prefer, love or marriage?
Maybe that's a little tongue twisted. But she has to know what she wants most and make things clear before making a decision. It takes seconds to make one decision, but it may take years for one to regret, that's true.
@vipsupervip (58)
• China
22 May 08
En,you are right.
That's ture and not easy.
Maybe this is a test for her love if their love firm enough.
Thank you for your response.
@Elixiress (3878)
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22 May 08
She should follow her heart, because marrying for money will never work for a long period of time, because if money issues develop then there is nothing holding them together, but if you can find love with a person that it well off then that is great.
@Elixiress (3878)
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22 May 08
I think that a person should think about the future rather than the here and now. Decide which one will last for the long run.
@vipsupervip (58)
• China
22 May 08
Oh,it's OK.
I think your answer is right.
But,I don't mean the girl like money or other things.She is just puzzled how to choose.
Follow one's heart,Speaking of vulnerable than done.
We can't do everything by our thought,because the environment may can't permit.
So, we should do thing by correct way I think.
How about your thought?
@vipsupervip (58)
• China
23 May 08
Wow,that's too reality.
Maybe your advise is right,but I can't tell her to choose someone for a bright futher.
I think it's too cruel for a girl who like dream...
I also thank you for your response anyhow.
@vipsupervip (58)
• China
23 May 08
Six years ago they recognized.Maybe their childhood sweethearts or not.
As I know,I think that their love start in 2006.
I don't know more becacuse I can't ask more from her.
You see,the thing is not to answer.
@xiaojing1226 (236)
• China
22 May 08
a classical problem.....maybe she doesnot love both of them,if she loves anyone maybe there is not the problem now,and now she need to do is that find out what she need and do it just because you happy.
@vipsupervip (58)
• China
22 May 08
Maybe she is also puzzled.
But I don't understand what your mean...
