relationship problems
By borgborg
@borgborg (821)
Philippines
May 22, 2008 1:26am CST
guys, what would you do if you're in a relationship that's full of misunderstandings? it's not that you're always in a fight with your partner coz you're both happy most of the time but when you're in a fight, everything comes out & you both tend to say some things that really hurt. you want it to end coz you want to prevent what can happen on your next fight but still, you can't afford to lose your partner. will you be brave enough to stay or would you be wise enough to let go?
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2 responses
@Power_of_Ganda (217)
• Philippines
23 May 08
Oftentimes we are solving our problems ahead of time if ever we are having problems or if we are having fights, misunderstandings and arguments. We don't allow each other to end the day if our problems is not yet settled.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
23 May 08
Bravery and wise decisions should not really play a role in this. I must admit I was going to say that they do not play a role, but in all honesty they can and they do. I think that if you want to be happy all the time, you must come to a compromise and understanding. There must be a point where you take a breath and sit down to talk to the person you love and make sure that they understand you do not mean to hurt them by bringing up the past, and that you want to know if they mean to hurt you.
Talking is the best way to settle things, no one said it was the easiest. If you are in this situation, I wish you luck in your relationship and hope that you can come to an understanding.
