Is love equal to holy?

Hi aowaow.. my heart cant answer for that.. because i havent the proper definition of the girls.. Some girls are very good in character and they are not forget her lover at any circumstaces but some othes are not like that.. please tell me the truth. Love is good or bad for youngsters..

Love has its good and bad side, depending on how a person deals with the matter. We can't expect love will only give us a pure sweetness if we do not want to accept the pain. Since love is one of the matter in life, we may find the good or bad in other aspect in life too, such as relationship with parents, family, God, and peers. But if you don't step inside to love and taste how the love is, you will only stand on the outside and look from the flesh perspective. Don't surrender before the war begins, however as a human, we must always have a will -a will to struggle- even though we know that many people had failed in relationship. But along with them, there are some others who successfully manage their relationships and have a nice long run for years. As a result, reflecting from other failure or success doesn't give us the same result if we step into the relationship by our own. We had our path, our destiny, and our result. Each relationship is unique, that because each personality was born uniquely. I hope you can find the deep side of yourself, my dear friend.