who am i to you?

The boy loves you. His love for you can only be measured by you and you only. Love is a feeling you need to feel to believe. i am talking about the honesty with which he is talking with you should matter the most to you. People have their opinion if they are put into those situations. Feel free to ask, but believe only your heart when you decide anything about him. Believe in your heart.

I would feel greatful to have such a sweet guy care for me. I am sure that sometimes I would feel like I want to be back with him. But then I would remember why we broke up in the first place. Maybe I would see that why we broke up could be fixed, or maybe it couldn't. It's hard to be in situations like this especially when you are single. If you are single you are weak and fall for the sweet messages. Do you want to be back with this man? Would be what I would ask myself. If you do then maybe try it again, and take it slower this time (not saying the first time was quick). If his messages are sending you mixed signals tell him it's either we are friends or lovers one or the other. I wish you the best of luck in love and life! Hope it all works out for the best!

I guess that the guy's just being nice to you, could've felt guilty or was sorry of what he's done to you. Sometimes we tend to interpret things the wrong way, so it's good of you to ask what you are to him. And to think that you're still friends after all what happened, is a good thing. If ever, he must be just taking time to express the his true feelings for you. But don't expect too much from it, so you won't get disappointed if ever things won't get back from what you thought it would be..

It could mean that you have a very special friend. A friend is someone to go out with from time to time and enjoy moments together. I have learned that just because a relationship as boyfriend girlfriend ends doesn't mean that your friendship has to. I have friends that I used to date and we do share a very special friendship. We can talk about anything because we know each other that well. I miss them when I haven't seen them for a while and we are always happy to get moments together even if it is just grabbing a quick meal out. Just be happy that you have a friend that cares that much for you.

i think that person can't forget you that's why he still sends sweet sms and still cares for you a lot.....maybe he still loves you... ...if i am in that situation, i think i would be happy coz someone really loves me and cares for me....

I will feel nothing. Beacuse i know a guy like me along. haha. In fact i will say nothing to he , may be a long time later, he will give up.

Been in that situation.I said that I love him but he turned away.Even if it's obvious that he likes me,he still kept on denying it and continued being a geek.Well,not my loss.There are still a lot out there and I've found the one for me!

It sounds as though this guy is being rather ambiguous in his thoughts. He clearly likes you a lot, perhaps even loves you, but cannot commit to you so he prefers to keep you as a 'friend' while treating you as a potential lover. But that only keeps people in limbo. I suppose it depends on how you feel about it. If you are not too happy with this ambiguous approach, then you have to ask him to be clearer in his actions, to either be a friend or lover but not both. Otherwise, that is all you will get from him, if you ignore his actions. He really cannot have it both ways, otherwise it will keep you feeling confused too while stopping you from seeking someone else in your life. So I would be rather firm and challenge him on that behaviour and see what he really wants because no one can put up with such ambiguity for too long. If he insists on having it both ways, then I would give him a wide berth for a while until he makes up his mind what he really wants simply because that kind of situation isn't healthy.

I think the man he likes you but he can't express hes honest feelings to you.maybe because he get imbarrased or something bothering his mind.Anyway its obvious that he likes you so much.Or its kind a motto that action speak lauder than words.

well its almost the same like what my friend now had, but in this time, my friends is the boy sending such sms, but not those sweet things. Well sometimes people are good in sms not in direct conversation, well just wait, whether that boy going to give up or not, if not then i think he do loves you, then just give it a try, maybe not a bad thing to do

I know how puzzled you are since I've been in almost the same situation as you were now. It's very bugling to evaluate how or what does this guy is up to. If i were to see or interpret what are the meaning of his actions, it must mean that he still likes you a lot. Something like you're such a very special person to him but he won't commit with you since you've already have a relationship before that does not work. He misses you may mean that he miss you as to the times of your relationship was and it can be he miss you as his friend. MAybe he told you this because he feels that you became different to him. Oh those invitations also prove that you really mean something to him. Or maybe you too are treating one another as more than friends but less than a lover. What do you think?

HI roanne05. I think we are ment to love lots of people in our life time. There is no limit. He loves you. It may not mean he wants to marry you but he stills loves you. We all need to love more. I wish there were more people in the world like him. You are very lucky to have found a very commpassionate loving friend. Are you sure he is not your soul mate...snicker. Pay it forward myfriend and spread your love. Dont be afraid to tell your love ones they are loved and need to eat on time! Better yet make a basket of muffins and toss a few my way!†

I think what is unachievable in love is achievable in friendship.

when that happen you feel very diffent and It hard for that person to become your best friend because there is some of the thing you will not be able to tdiscuss with her. just like a problem in your relaionship eith another girl. you might still have the feeling to send sms but along the way these litle conversation will fade away.

I believe that love shouldn't be restricted as the feeling and emotions felt between a couple, love is vast and huge in itself; love dwells in motherhood, love echoes in the fight and squabbling amongst siblings, love is felt from the scolding of an angry father, love also resides in friendship..I can really admit, that I really love my Best Friend, I sense nothing wrong in that..