if you found out your husband has a mistress what will you do?
By maquisa
@maquisa (316)
Philippines
May 22, 2008 7:34am CST
a frend of mine has her own family now,they are in abroad...his husband went back here in the Phil. because he was been assigned here. My frend left there because her work is there and her daughter is still 9 months, they just communicate through chat w/cam,text,and call...my frend trust his husband very much and never she thinks that's his husband will going to cheat on her. My frend decided to went back in the Phil. just to confirmed about the things she has found out, then she confronted his husband about it, and of course every guy even the nicest one denies the issue...but the worst she saw it with his two eyes they are living together and his husband is the one paying their house,and even her studies...she decided to file a divorced but then she thinks about her daughter's feeling?anyone who experience about this?
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2 responses
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
28 May 08
I must admire their "generosity" to tell out the truth. As if, they think it's acceptable for your friend. But I couldn't, this had gone too far. It's an in-purpose cheating. The reason even though is because of the circumstances and condition, the distance. It's unreliable if we blame this for ourself, because it wasn't meant to be. It's unfair for us.
@angie05 (23)
• Northern Mariana Islands
23 May 08
my first boyfriend ever since in high school. 2 years later, I had my first child. a year later I had our second child. 4 years later I found out that he has a girlfriend. When I found out, I moved out of his house and stayed with my parents for 3 months, just until when he decided he wants his family back. So I went ahead and move in with him. Before I go back, I told him all the things I want from him. We've been together for 14 years now and we've been happy being together with our 4 kids. If you ever find out that your partner has another partner, show him that you can move on without him, because the more you stay and argue with him the more he would take advantage of you.
