do u feel comfortable living in ur relatives house while studying??
By praveensirsi
@praveensirsi (91)
May 22, 2008 9:13pm CST
i had to stay in my aunt s place while i was completing my graduation and faced many problems and enjoyed a bit as well..but there was this feeling always that its not my house and someone else s so i never cud feel the same way i used to fell wn i was at home..many of u might have experineced this...share ur feelings...
5 responses
@jyjnl_jia (429)
• China
23 May 08
not much comfortable.I Prefer to rent a apartment which belongs to me temporarily.I can do whatever i want.
@lovenluck (1068)
• India
23 May 08
that's it I too am better of renting a house and staying alone then rather staying in some relatives house. Frankly speaking however nice they may be Someday or the other we are made to feel that we don't belong here and that sometimes hurt and again there is the privacy thing We are chained down much more in their house much more then we actually are use to So it's better to stay away and alone.
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
23 May 08
Ahmmm. When I was in HS, i stayed with my relatives, and I felt a little bit uncomfortable knowing that it's not home and not even closer to home. It was ok, but there was this odd feeling, that's why in college, i tried living in a dormitory, though they are not relatives, I felt more comfortable. I mean, it's ok to be me in the dorm because my dormmates don't impose and in a way they would accept you for who you are. :)
@praveensirsi (91)
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23 May 08
you are absolutely right, its very tuff to change ur living style and yet stay in so called our house...i know exactly wat u mean there,,,
@moon317318 (692)
• Pakistan
23 May 08
yes i do, i don't think it is uncomfortable, .... for some people it will be but not for me,
@Icewaterwarm (233)
• China
23 May 08
I live in a dormitory with three classmates . I feel comfortable with my friend .I can do any thing in my house .But sometimes I 'm tired of my friend ,usually they talk and play games at night when I sheep .So I also want to move to my home or live alone .But everythings I must do myself. When I 'm young ,living in my aunt's place .
I face some problems like you , many things I can't tell my aunt and uncle .
@miachen (68)
• China
23 May 08
My relatives usually get in touch with each other frequently. This is a warm phenomenon, isn't it?
But the other truth is that the phenomenon often be totally changed recently when relatives live together lone times.
For example, I lived in my aunt's house last year. I did some houseworks just like at my home. But she told me what I did is over polite. So I began to talk with her when we were together and did some cleanning works only when she was out.
However, it turned out that she thought me began to be lazy.
So only what I can do at that time was behaviour like a child who needed to be forgived.
