I am depressed,what should I do?
By xiaojing1226
@xiaojing1226 (236)
China
5 responses
@Mike_yy (28)
• China
23 May 08
i think you have favorite habits too. indulge in it and never talk to him either.that's the useful method to attract his attention.my GF had used the same instrument to me... LOL, after several days,i promise you he will go to talk to you and a futher love will be paid.why? do you want to know? because a lonely feeling will attack him in the period of you ignoring his existence.you know,the most anguished thing is nobody enjoy your performance.even you abuse him but no response at all.could you imagine that feeling? that's so a horrible experience for me. i never want to go back again... good luck!
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
23 May 08
Well I guess you just have to discuss this with your husband. I think you should be as calm as possible never irritate your husband about how you feel about his habits and tell him how much you've missed him since he got hooked to his habit. Just remember to be calm about how you deliver things. many men sometimes do not realized that they are already ignoring their wife and being aggressive could sometimes make the situation worse. Talking to him in a manner that would not agitate him might make him realize and try to reform in the end. Hopefully everything turns out right for the two of you.
@madlees (1377)
• India
23 May 08
Hi ,
I can tell you one thing.. If I cannot make him come to me I will go to him.. That is I will join him in his internet games and play with him. I can find only that way. I have also tried in many ways to talk to him or trying to make him listen to me. If he is doing something else he will not pay any attention. So instead of complaining I started joining him in whtever he was doing. This was thirty years before. Now Idonot have the problem .
@hamsuyousaf (3)
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23 May 08
hi
human life created with full of strugles,we want to overcome that with wise interpretations.i think your problem will be solved when you adjust with husbend,he may
doing things good for you,but in yourway its wrong go ahead with right conversations