Love Lessons - Do you believe these?

Hi martindale! How did you find out that "I won't do it again" doesn't mean what it's supposed to mean? Just out of curiosity, you know.

Unfortunately, I learned most of my life lessons the hard way. I've been around a lot of people that prey on others that are honest and expecting that others value the truth like I do. After you see enough people say things like that an do exactly what they say they won't skepticism sets in and you adopt the "show me" attitude. "ACTION SPEAKS LOUDER THAN WORDS". "A LEAPORD DOESN'T CHANGE IT'S SPOTS". I can probably come up with about 50 words of wisdom quotes that refer to this. People will say anything to get what they want. Swearing on a Bible only means "I'll say anything I don't think you can prove different."

That's really deep of you martindale. Thanks! I like the leopard quote. It's really true. You can't just let a person change what he has been doing all his life just for you. That's very difficult if not impossible. But I think people are bound to change. After all, the only constant thing in this world are changes. But the question is, what will be the extent of changes a person can adapt to? Whew! Really hard topic. Thanks for the words of wisdom though.

Hi linziapple! Im glad you find my suggestion worth trying. You know what, we have the same dilemma. My guy also does similar things over and over again even if I already told him that I don't like these things he is doing. I don't know why but maybe because he's already gotten used to doing it. Oh, and i definitely agree with you that guys really give less than what we expect from them. I guess we just have to understand these traits they have because we can't do anything about them.. Hehehe

Hehe,I am glad to have a new friend on this subject^^ Should we force us to accept the fact? But do you think whether I should kick him...Hehe In fact,I really got disappointed by him many times.If a man is lack of responsibility to the things he's promised to do,maybe he should tell himeself being a boyfriend no more...Hehe

Kick him right now! Hehehe! Nah, just kidding. Seriously, i think we should not force ourselves in accepting their "bad" attitudes. We have to take it one at a time. But let's also constantly remind them that we don't like these attitudes of them and we wish they change those for the relationship to work out. It takes two to tango. So if your guy doesn't help you in letting the relationship grow and work out, then he's not worth your attention after all.

you're right moudy242..i guess we won't really know if these are true.. everything's uncertain these days..