Friend or more
By xixinha
@xixinha (141)
Portugal
May 23, 2008 6:23pm CST
Imagine you have a friend, likes everything u do and there is nothing that u don't like about them, he/she is the perfect person for u. If they liked more than you thought, and they asked you out romanticly, would you go out with them? Would you consider being more than friends and risk your great friendship?
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5 responses
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
24 May 08
Depends how I feel about my friend. I always ask that question myself. I used to be in so many good friendships and suddenly everything was gone, because he asked me out...
In few cases I feel sorry I didn't try...
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@5mayday (1053)
• Norway
24 May 08
Ofcourse will I think if that will ruin our friendship, but I think I will take that risk if he like me that much and is the perfect person for me... but I think I would be really careful with it. Since he is so perfect in my eyes I would not want anything awkward feeling between us if anything happen.
@gurlee03 (22)
• Malaysia
24 May 08
Depends.. If you feel that you also want the relationship to go a bit more further romanticly, then why not.
I've been in this situation before where my bestfriend ask me out but i refuse. Not that I don't want too but i'm attached with somebody else. I explained to him and try to avoid breaking his heart but still we can't avoid that fact that he will be dissapoint to be rejected. Luckly things goes fine, he still want to be friend with me but guess what.. some things do change... And i regret that it happens.
@Xdrowninghavocx (3117)
• United States
24 May 08
It depends how long I've know them. I wouldn't want things to be awkward between us. Well, mostly on my end. Moving from friends to something more seems too complicated for me. There is already a balance between the two of you and if you ruin that what will happen next? I don't know anyone who has made this happen. I personally wouldn't want to ruin a great friendship.
@pheonixstar1982 (2307)
• United States
24 May 08
If i had a great friend who became romantically interested in me and I didn't act on it I would always wonder what if. I have actually been friends with a guy, then became romantically involved, then went back to be just friends because a couple we just didn't suit one another and our friendship never ended.