Gentlemen Prefer Blondes

thanks, i think that is something that will work for both parties involved

I think thats a very fair answer. Support one another without changing one another.

I don't think I'd ever buy a wig. Not unless I lost my hair to chemo or something like that.

I used to wear them a lot in the seventies - can't really remember why, and yes they itched something fierce! LOL

just tell him it's your hair and your decision.

My boyfriend is always wanting me to change my hair back to strawberry blonde, but I won't do it. I just want to go back to blonde. No more red!

yup, it is natural black & shiny, we are the kind of woman being natural.

Wouldn't you say that in your culture, its less likely for women to dye their hair?

How would you know, unless you actually went ahead and did it?

OH, I have tried some very drastic hair styles and had too much fun with them.

Isn't it nice to look better than an ex expected? LOL! Makes them think twice.

On a daily basis I would wear only what I wanted to wear. Now, however, if it came to bedroom time, I might take a few suggestions.

I can see where adding a bit of red would make it prettier and not so flat looking. I think anytime you add highlights you are adding a bit of "spark".

I think I feel the same way that you do. I have had my hair all colors of the spectrum too, but only at my own desire, not at the desire of another.

I agree people should accept who you are and not try to change you.

I've seen some women who have layered their hair, the top being white and the bottom dark and I thought it looked really nice. Really fashionable for someone with grey or white hair.

Simply said, but I agree.

I think thats a very healthy attitude and I wouldn't want someone to not like me because I didn't adhere to what they wanted from me.

Black needs to grow, before you can dye on any color. My daughter did it long time ago, it took her over one year and many cuts to go back....

I wish I could get my hair to go back blonde. I dyed it blonde for years and then decided to go dark, now I can't get it to go back for anything.

It always is so hard to get your hair lighter. Just go to a beauty shop and little by little they will help you out . I know they love putting in high lights first.

That seems a bit outrageous

which one seems a bit outrageous, the fact that I got my hair cut so short, the fact that I believe he knew what he was getting into when he met me, or the fact that I told him that if he didn't love me for the person I was on the inside, then the relationship would fail and suggest I could move out? There are things that have to be understood here, I am a very open and honest person, I was a single mom before we got together, and I had had my share of bull crap I was single and celibate for 3 years to take the time to figure out what I wanted from life, from a partner, and all my cards have been on the table since the day we met. I was not in need of a knight in shining armor, nor did I want one...I was doing fine raising my kids, paying my bills and taking care of what needed taking care of. What I wanted was someone to walk beside me, take my hand and be my equal from the inside out. It doesn't hurt to remind them once in a while about what they are doing in the relationship and why they are with you. I have open communication with my hubby, alot of people may think the way you think....that is why there is such a high divorce rate. I am not afraid to say what is on my mind, to anyone in my life. Sometimes it needs to be done with tact and grace, others it just comes out as it is, as it should. I make no appologies for that no matter how outrageous it may be...I am okay with me!

I feel the same way, if you didn't like my appearance when you started dating me, why didn't you date someone you found more attractive?

I wouldn't change my looks to suit anyone elses tastes either, love me for who I am, or don't love me.

Me either Ellie. Accept me for who I am and what I look like, or not at all.

What you describe sounds like alot of fun and there is a good reason behind it, but just to change for someone's whim is a whole different story.

I agree. Like me for who I am, or don't like me, but don't me to change to meet your expectations.