who started marriage system........lol
By apsara60
@apsara60 (6610)
Israel
May 25, 2008 2:50am CST
Hi friends,
now don't get me wrong
I have nothing against marriage, but just want to know who started this system. The whole world is following this rule with so much celebration and joy. I wonder where lies the origin of this ???.......I wonder who was the first couple who got married ???.....may be my friends know
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9 responses
@paid2write (5201)
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25 May 08
It's an interesting question. I know that the ancient Greeks had marriage ceremonies, two and a half thousand years ago. Some of their gods and godesses were married so it must have existed for thousands of years before that time.
I think marriage was originally a way of ensuring that all men supported their women and children and did not just have a quick fling and then leave. It was a also way of building dynasties and gaining wealth and power through dowries and marriage contracts, which had little to do with love.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
25 May 08
Thanks for your reply friend. Yes I agree with you. The basic cause of marriage must have been ensuring that men support women and children or else there would be no difference between human beings and animals, and later on people started to miss use this system to gain wealth and dowry system came as curse for poor girls. marriage become more of business and less of love.
But now things are chaining........more girls are educated and parents have realised that girls are as good as boys if they are well educated and allowed to get employed and become self dependent.
@iftikharsumn (1471)
• Pakistan
27 May 08
yea dear when the first couple was sent to earth and came here they start marriage system
i am not being able to tell you whole history due to the language probleme.
@dpk262006 (58676)
• Delhi, India
25 May 08
I cannot tell you who was the first couple who got married, because my history is very poor....LOL!This much I was told - in the very olden times, there was no institution of marriage. Anyone could get as many partners as he wanted. There was no set system. To streamline the proceduce, the institution of marriage was started so that one male could stay with one female as partner, for a life long time. They could bear kids and bring them up. If one was attached to tied to one partner, the chances of polygamy got reduced and it was crystal clear, who was whose partner. It is, therefore, the instution of marriage was started centuries ago by the society.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
26 May 08
Yes that is what we believe too cupid but I always wanted to ask a question, tell me ,if Adam and eve had only two kids and they were both boys, then from where did the rest of the people come.....till today I don't know about this....besides even if later on they had daughters , still they where sisters and brothers....so how did population explosion happen.......
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
28 May 08
Ha ha ha
i know from where u r coming, Well if u believe in Adam and Eve then u must be firm believer that it was start of Population at Earth by reproduction, rather than Crwated by God like Adam and Eve and other angels.
Sure they were brothers and sisters but at early stage it might have allowed till population grow and society start to come into existense. But i read some where that they were giving birth to one boy then girl, and boy ! marry to Girl born at No 4. And i am sure as Adam was prophet and must be getting Guidelines from Allah
Hope i try to make u understand
but i sure know u have much better clear vision on it
Take care
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@phaneendrudu (34)
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25 May 08
dear friend,
our ancient people started this method,because at the time of our ancient people they used toenjoy any lady/gent.In this situation the strongbodied people are only getting chances of enjoyment but the weak people are not getting chances.At that time the old people of the community sat together and discussed on the situation and they thought outfor the solution. At last they decided to have one man with one woman and viceversa. Likethat the marriage system has emerged.
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@phaneendrudu (34)
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25 May 08
hai friend,
u have misunderstood me.in ancient days when there was no marriage system men used to occupy women whom ever they like. in india you see the street dogs occupying the femaleones by overthrowing other compitents.likewise ancient men used to occupy the women by beating the other men who will like to have the women.as a result only strong men are getting to engage women with out giving chance to weaker persons.hence the weak people will not have any chance of getting women.the older people thought that marriage system is a remedy for this problem.not only that, in marriage system both the genders will have responsibility on their family.i hope u will understand it.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
25 May 08
That is a very interesting question with which I am sure will be many different answers. I have researched it (well looked at one site) and must say that have various different ideals for marriages.... Not really saying about the first recorded marriage or such but if you would like the link I would be happy to share it with you.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
25 May 08
Hello somecowgirl, Thanks for your reply. Yeah lets see what others have to say about all this. Nice to know that you have researched about this topic. I was bit afraid to start discussion. I thought may be people will call it my stupidity.....lol
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
25 May 08
It is a relevant discussion and a very interesting topic that no one really thinks about.
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
14 Aug 08
God instituted the first marriage when he presented Eve to Adam. In Genesis 2: 22-23 23And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
24Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
There wasn't a ceremony as we have them today because there weren't any witnesses beside God. God then told them to produce children. Adam lived well into his 900 years and Eve may have live as long too. Since they were created as adults they could have had well over 7oo children. Cain, Able and Seth were not their only children. They were the only named children. Since there was genetic purity there was no harm in marrying a brother or sister or nieces and nephews.
@Candee (530)
• India
29 May 08
I donot know Apsara. But I can guess. It was the time when people got emotionally attached that they began to feel the power of love, bond and care. Physicality had always been there - that was the basic instinct but its the emotional bond that made us marry and stay together.
I could be wrong though.