When do u know its LOVE???
By kurtavish
@kurtavish (135)
Mauritius
May 25, 2008 7:02am CST
The girl I love the most asked me this question 1 hour ago!
When do u know its love??? I am sure she will be here to check this post so I want all of you buddies to give her some insights for this one.
I don't wanna give her an answer myself...else it'll look like my opinion. Thanks in advance for all your advice.
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14 responses
@vermillion (887)
• Philippines
25 May 08
It is love when your world doesn't seem so dark anymore. The coffee smells greater, the bread tastes better. Every moment with him/her feels like forever yet you can't get enough of it. You crave the moments and the laughters.
You are your best YOU when you're in love.(^^,)
@kurtavish (135)
• Mauritius
25 May 08
Thanks vermillion! You gave me a very good answer that apply to my case. Uhmmm the coffee and everything does taste better for me since I have met her.
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@vermillion (887)
• Philippines
25 May 08
Your welcome!(^^,)
I've been down that road before, and I'm glad I've shared the feeling(^^,)
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@landi927 (657)
• China
25 May 08
when do u know its love? when you are with her you feel so comfortable. when you aren't with her, you are so eager to see her face. When she is suffering, you are more painful than her. When she is happy, all things in your world are so wonderful. When she is sad, your heart seems to break up. when you are feeling these, u know its love1
@kurtavish (135)
• Mauritius
25 May 08
Thats a good answer. I do feel almost all the things you said above. Well my heart don't seem to break up when she is sad coz I have never saw her sad since I know her (very recently).
And I wish that she is never sad...coz my heart wont just break up...but might even die!
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@lawgirl20486 (9)
• Australia
25 May 08
you no its love by looking at the person when the person thinks about you every second of the day when all you can do is wait until you met or see the person again.
Love is a complicated word its a word the comes from the soul. A word that means a thousand things. A word that is everlasting and sometimes a word that is forbidden.
Love means to me that the one thing in life you dont have to pay for the one thing in life that you cherish and the one thing in life that can be taken from you.
Love can hurt love can conqur and love can blossom into whatever and however the person wishes to love or be loved.
@serena_wai (970)
• Malaysia
25 May 08
You can't wait to tell her everything that happen to you.
You can't wait to call her and listen to everything that happen to her.
In your imaginary future, she is always in there.
In your day/night dream, she is always in there.
Everything that she likes, has become your favorite.
Everything that she hates, you remember to avoid.
Love is so sweet, kiss her and let her know, you truly love her.
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@leateagee (3667)
• China
25 May 08
You will know it is love when all the things seem to be right eventhough its wrong. When you always feel you are in a cloud nine by just thinking of him/her. When all your body parts seem to froze when she's/he's near and all you can do is "SMILE". When your time just evolves around that person.
This is the best part: When you don't look at his/her body and admires him/her. When you plan for the future you'll make for her. When you involve him/her in your life. You become as one. What matters to you, matters to him/her. When stupidity is accepted by both parties.
But people usually don't get married because of true love. Most of the time it is because of practicality purposes or the need to. These are just my opinions. I hope I was able to help.
@kurtavish (135)
• Mauritius
25 May 08
Well thanks. About getting married I think its true what you said. But does "practicality" and "the need to" are the factors that will make her happy in life??? She can get a guy whom her parent select...but finally find out that the guy does not love him as much as the boyfriend whom she refused to marry...
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@yushaa (15)
• Mauritius
26 May 08
Love is when you dont feel incomplete
Love is when u can share the most stupid thing to the most serious one
Love is when u can give ur mail password without thinkin twice
Love is when .......i think we should watch that film jaane tu na jaane na
@kurtavish (135)
• Mauritius
27 May 08
Thanks dolly :-) I don't feel incomplete....Surely I do share the most stupid things such as my liking of crows with you lol....ok...i'll send you my mail password tonite....The film??? hmmm...ok I;ll watch it for you only...even thought I don't watch too much films....lol
@ayeezgail (18)
• Philippines
25 May 08
it's LOVE when you cant help but to get hurt when you see him/her in pain,when you got hurt and you still prefer to stay with that person inspite and despite of.....
@kurtavish (135)
• Mauritius
25 May 08
Hmmm...I used to be like that with my ex girlfriend!Got hurt and still prefer to remain...but then you know what??
There come a time when you so hurt that you completely forget you love her...and start hating her as much as you loved her!
And for Yusha...I just dont ever want to see her in Pain!!!
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@simplysue (631)
• United States
26 May 08
You know it's love when you can't picture your life without the other person in it.You know it's love when you start including the other person in your future plans automatically. You know it's love when other people's opinions of the other person aren't enough to influence the way you feel about them.You know it's love when you are willing to overcome differences and agree to disagree on issues that are important to you in order to make the relationship work.I'm sure there are many other ways to know if it's love, these are just the ways that I knew it was love. Best wishes to you both! :)
@wendylb (203)
• Philippines
26 May 08
We'll you can know only when it is love or not by comparing to what the Bible said for about LOVE.If you have Bible, you can read it in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7"Love is patient, love is kind. I does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." This what the Bible tells about love. I hope your getting nice insights of it.
Take care and God bless!
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@ajayrekha (491)
• India
26 May 08
1. When you dont feel sun heat on a big heated summer day under sun and she is with you, understand you are li love.
2. When its a cold winter day and you are in balcony watching at her. You are bare footed and you are not feeling in cold in your foot, you are in love.
3. When you try to find some excuses to meet her, you are in love.
4. When you turn back and look at each other again after saying good bye to each other, you are in love.
There are many more symptoms, you will realize it yourself.
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@geego5312 (9)
• Jamaica
26 May 08
True love is made up of unconditional giving, sacrifice and commitment; so when you experience these traits then you know you are deeply loved.
@tessah (6617)
• United States
26 May 08
love really cant be explained by words. words denote logic, and emotions arent logical, thus cant be expressed in words.. but i will try my best to put the feelings i have for my husband and daughter into them.
if my day doesnt start off with my little girls face hovering over mine with a smiley "good morning mommy!!" and one of those warm just-woke-up squishes she hands over before my brain is even functioning.. the rest of my day feels incomplete, somethings missing.. and nothing else seems to go right. when she isnt around, i miss the simple sound of her. the chatter, the laughter.. even the sound of her footsteps.
if i even entertain thoughts of my future without my husband by my side through it.. itll cause me physical pain, and i cant even see a future. when we fight, and we havent made things right, everything else that might go wrong.. is magnified. whereas when things are "right" between us, the really bad things that could go on.. dont seem as bad or unamanageable. having him near me.. even in silence, gives me peace.. and the feel of his breath on my shoulder is what lulls me to quiet sleep.. hes the one i turn to for everything, hes the one i trust with my life.. and more importantly, my heart. and a thousand lifetmes still isnt enough time to have him with me.
@ayessa (1583)
• Philippines
26 May 08
You know it's love when you are willing to sacrifice everything just to be with that person. When you are willing to take the bullet that is for the person you love without hesitant. When just a memory of her or just her name being mentioned you've smiled without a reason.
@kurtavish (135)
• Mauritius
27 May 08
Bullet??? Hmmm...Ok lets go to fight lol... :-) Just kidding. Thanks...thanks eveybuddies 4 d replies. In fact she did came here and posted a reply :-)
@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
25 May 08
When you know its love? Its simply when her thoughts always etch in your mind, your eyes adore to see her, and when she isn't in front, your eyes crave for her :( Its imply an unexplainable feeling, I really came to know, its really love from the glow in my eyes, the smile on my face, the throbs of my heart..I simply feel happy, my soul seems to dance around, my heart bubbling with joy, and whats more important, this feeling simply never fade, I still live these feelings till now, and im sure that this will always exist..
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@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
25 May 08
when they bring out the best in you .
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