Would you correct someone who mispronounced a word?

@hanirose (307)
Philippines
May 25, 2008 5:02pm CST
Would you correct someone who mispronounced a word? Don't you think it's impolite? Isn't it unethical?
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@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
26 May 08
I don't know, I think it would depend on the person and the situation. If I knew someone was getting ready to make a speech and they were constantly mispronouncing a word and there were a lot of people standing around. I would whisper it to them. I live in the south and down here a lot of words are mispronounced, yellow is yeller, window is winder and so on. My ex-husband has an uncle who was ordering sweet potatoe souffle read the menu and called it sweet potatoe shuffle.
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@hanirose (307)
• Philippines
26 May 08
thank you. i enjoyed reading your opinion! =P sometimes in the restaurant (specially if it's italian) if i dont know how to pronounce the item, i just point it out to the waiter and say "I'll have this one, how do you say this?"
@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
26 May 08
That was suppose to be potato
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
25 May 08
I would only do that if I pretty much know the word being mispronounced as well as know the person who mispronounced it. I would not correct them infront of a number of other people but when its only me and that person. With friends, I would only do corrections by way of asking instead of insisting the correct way of pronouncing words, such as, "Isn't it suppose to be (right pronounciation of word) instead of (wrong pronounciation of word)...?" there shouldn't be sense of arrogance in asking or it would surely seem impolite even though you are only trying to help them out with their grammar.
@hanirose (307)
• Philippines
26 May 08
i understand. thanks!
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@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
26 May 08
Your quite welcome... we all can make mistakes
• United States
25 May 08
Is it unethical? No. Impolite? Just maybe, but I've done it before. And I really don't care what people think. If someone says something wrong, I'm going to correct it. I don't get how people can't pronounce even the most basic words sometimes. It boggles my mind.
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• Philippines
26 May 08
It depends. I teach in college and when I ask a student to read something or to answer a question and that student mispronounces a word, I feel duty-bound to give the correct pronunciation. When I am with some friends and they also commit the error of mispronouncing a word, I tell them the correct pronunciation. I do not do that just to anyone. I mean, I don't think I would ever to do that to a complete stranger. I don't think that it is unethical or impolite. It's just really how you correct them.
@hanirose (307)
• Philippines
26 May 08
indeed! it depends on how you say it and your intentions or even how the person you've said it too understands it. I think that these kinds of situations depends from case to case basis. It might be impolite if you don't really know the person thus, the motive of caring is questionable. I believe that if a person corrects you, it means they care about what other people has got to say to you otherwise they just want to insult you. so the person who was corrected should also have good judgment.
@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
25 May 08
There are persons who cannot pronounce words properly. It would be impolite that you know this and then you keep on telling them that the words they are speaking is mispronounced. So I would say depends on the circumstances that one finds themselves.
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• United States
25 May 08
No, I think it is rude and unethical. In fact my children have corrected adults & myself on different occasions & I kindly remind them in front of the people that "Adult do not like to be corrected"
@ferdzNK (3211)
• Philippines
26 May 08
Hi Hanirose, I wouldn't mind receiving one as long as it's in good intentions. So I would correct somebody too that way, preferably whom I know in simple not too noticeable manner. I think it would be impolite if the person is incapable to pronouncing it correctly and while the person is addressing an audience.
@hanirose (307)
• Philippines
26 May 08
i agree.. it depends on he intention of the person. if he/she intends to humiliate you or he/she just wanted to let you know what's the right way to pronounce it, in any case it wouldn't be right if we just let the person know the wrong way. If we at least correct them they wont have to risk having to be embarrassed with a greater deal of people or in a more awkward situation.
@chechuva (1275)
• Philippines
26 May 08
Actually i do correct my friends' and family's pronunciation. i really don't think its impolite to correct them, but it will be impolite if the way of correcting is like humiliating them. i just ignore those people that im not that close.
@mopiss (154)
• Bosnia And Herzegovina
3 Jun 08
Usually no, but if I have some intimacy, yes, I do! Oh, sorry, I'm from Brazil, my gramatical is too bad, so if you notice some mistakes feel free to correct me!! Bye.
@intermy (153)
• China
8 Jun 08
Hello! I correct my girlfriend's mispronounce and she correct me, for fun. But I never correct someone else. A language We speak is express our ideas and let others know about us. it not a stand. So, If I can understand something you said I can never correct you.